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What Are the Most Important Questions to Ask Someone You Meet?

“Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by this some have entertained angels without knowing it.” – Hebrews 13:2

We hope that you are wisely reading other member profile descriptions and imagining what it might be like to have a conversation with them. And by now you may already be having some good conversations with other members of our site.  Remember: don’t fall into the trap of only looking at pictures and thinking from your gut.  It’s important to consider the values and lifestyle choices of someone first and foremost.  Then, you should have a solid conversation to talk about genuine topics and see whether you are able to communicate well, and to learn about each other.  In case you would like some ideas what to cover in these conversations, here are some important topics to address.

 It’s nice to start with a few simple things, like how are you today and so on.  But then do not be shy.  Ask many important questions (preferably each one several times in different ways) because this is the best way to learn whether the person you are about to meet is the right person for you.

You should ask these important questions when you chat on webcam (if you are able to chat on webcam).  Then later when you meet in person, you should ask them again.  Maybe you will find that he or she is the angel you’ve been waiting to meet for so many years.  Or maybe an angel, but just not meant for you.  Be respectful, but be comprehensive.

Here are important questions we recommend you ask as soon as possible.

  1. What is your occupation?

  2. What can you do well?

  3. What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know?

  4. Have you had a long-term relationship? Why did it end?

  5. What do you think is the most important value in a relationship?

  6. Have you been married before?

  7. Do you have any children?  How do you feel about children?

  8. If you are married, who would you honor first: your spouse or your friends or your parents or your children (if applicable)?

  9. Is God important to you?  What is your relationship with God like?

  10. Tell me about a biblical story you like.

  11. Describe your perfect date.

  12. What are the things you do for fun?

  13. What foods do you like to cook or eat?

  14. Do you prefer living in a city, town, or farm?

  15. Where do you see yourself in 5 years time?

  16. Do you have any bad habits?

  17. Are you a morning or night person?

  18. What do you look for in a friend or spouse?

  19. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would that be?

  20. What makes you laugh or cry?

  21. What’s your biggest frustration?

  22. How much effort would you dedicate to learning your future spouse’s language?

  23. What are your fears?

  24. What is your most favorite childhood memory?

  25. Would you like to spend some more time getting to know each other?

Feel free to add your suggested questions/topics as comments below, as well.

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