Every single day, we have applications for members to our site from criminals who seek to prey on our members and steal from our members. Usually, we have become quite good at recognizing their applications for membership. And we deny them membership. But sometimes we miss one of these criminals, and by mistake we allow them to be members of the site. Here is an example of one of the criminals who joined our site about 1 week ago and tricked us.
The profile was for “Frederick Bundchen” who claimed to be from Elizabethtown, Kentucky, United States. This is what he wrote in his profile:
I am patient,generous, kind, and loving. I am always upbeat, have a positive attitude about most things and I like to have fun. I like football,movies,swimming,dancing,cooking,singing in the choir at church,listening to music,shopping,taking walks at night and looking at the stars,watching the sunset,eating at a very nice restaurant and going to live concerts,theater, movies and art. I love to travel, and to go sightseeing. I love museums, romantic dinners,…..And I am a fun loving person who loves to laugh and make others laugh. I always try to enjoy the simple things in life,and not take anything for granted.I’ve a naturally curious mind and love to learn about peoples, cultures, and so many other things…I love romantic dinners,
The profile included pictures of a man, a woman, and a boy about 5 years old.
We approved this application for membership in the site. Then the member upgraded the membership by paying using a credit card and began contacting members sending ladies his email address firstname.lastname@example.org. When one of our lady members wrote to the man, he responded by claiming he wanted to hire a nanny and was going to help the lady get a visa to the USA to be the nanny. Here are the emails he sent:
Thanks for your reply and interest in the job I am really willing to get a Driver and Nanny down to the US soon and I told you that i am going to Pay you 3,000Sdollars a month and that will be for the Up keep of Driver and Nanny to where ever. I have Duplex Building with 8 Bedrooms and 2 living rooms and that is all I Want you to take care of You’ll have a room to yourself with a complete Working system with internet facilities which Will enable you communicate with your friends And Family daily.
The reason why I need a driver and Nanny is because I will be moving out of city due to official duty .Now I have to go on a naval course for 6 months And I need a Driver and Nanny in aupair to take care of my kids I understand that you might not have your Visa processed yet and I have already discussed With the United state Immigration service about My intention to get the service of a Driver and Nanny to Take care of my kids while I am on national Duty…..Since I am a Naval officer and I hardly Stay at home…So this is how I intend to make Everything work…
I will give you the email of the immigration Office as well as my Naval license ID number so That they will know that I directed you to the Immigration office for the processing of your Visa…..I will take good care of your departure and arrival to the US when your Visa processing is Completed…But you will have to pay for your Visa registration fee yourself which cost about $225US.
This is because The Immigration has mandated it that the Applicant will address the Visa Registration fee because the payment Receipt will be attached to your papers and The name on it will be used for the processing of all your Papers….and when the processing get done,it will be sent to you via a courier service.More over alert will send to US immigration,US embassy and POEA in your home country as soon as your visa is ready and you will be call for interview .The reason why you have to pay for your Visa registration Yourself is because the immigration office has made it Compulsory that it is the applicant who pays for Her visa registration because I have once been Cheated by a Filipino whom I paid all her expense And when he got his papers, he did not show up to me…So the thing is this, i am going to help you mak sure that you get your visa at all cost. With my influence……I really need a honest and sincere person to work for me…. I think the registration fee for Asia foreigners hoping to work in the US is 225USdollars so that is all they will ask you to pay and the rest will be my doing about 4,700USdollar …I will check out Philippine Work abroad agencies and i will make sure all is set For you. This is all that I have planned down so if you are OK with it, do mail me back. But if you will ask Me to pay your Visa Registration fee for you, please Don’t write me back.Contact me back only if you are ready for this or Maybe I should just get someone else as this is Very important and urgent…Please get back to Me by email only.. I will be away for 6 months and you Will be the one taking care of my safety.
Mr Frederick B Underway Navy.
US Naval Officer
and also this message:
Thanks for your Kind message and interest to Go further with this offer.Immigration will only ask you to pay for visa registration fee which is $225US,I will be the one to pay for your visa placement and airfare total cost $4700US…now I am convinced that I have someone who Will be able to take care of my safety and my home….I am going to write the immigration office to notify them that you will be sending Application for Visa and other traveling Papers and i will have them linked up with you……
They already provided me with the opportunity to bring in 2 foreigner to the US and they have given me the serial code which I am going to give To you. And you will write to them by email and they will know that you are my client and I referred You to them…
I will give you their email and you will email them And tell them you were referred for your visa processing and immigration licensing From Mr……..of the US Naval force…And then you provide them with your immigrant serial code which is Ref: 3829-44632-us-28891-ph And include your full name and address.You are also going to be contacted by the department of foreign affairs over there in your home town and they will get you the necessary documents…..ok?
I am trying to make sure everything get arranged quickly And soon enough. This is the immigrations office E-mail…..email@example.com
Contact them as soon as possible.
Mr Frederick B
US Naval Officer 140 barbara circle,Elizabethtown, Kentucky 42701
We were informed of this by one of our careful members who was suspicious about the email she had received. When we investigated, we suspended the profile of the member immediately because it is clearly a criminal fraud.
As we have written previously many times, do not ever send money to anyone you have never met in person. This applies to men as well as to women. If you ever have any of our members attempt to ask you for money, please write to us immediately so that we can investigate.
Over time, as our site becomes more popular, we know that more and more scammers will seek to break in. We see criminal scammers claiming to be from Philippines, USA, Africa, England, China. We continue to change the way our site works to make it more and more difficult for the scammers to take advantage of our members. We believe that we have the largest percentage of sincere members of any Asian dating site, and the smallest percentage of insincere, scammers, and criminals, thanks to our custom improvements to our system, our dedication to educating our members about these issues, and to our members who immediately inform us when any other member attempts to trick them. If you are curious sometime, you may want to visit and join some of the other dating sites and see for yourself how many criminals there are on the internet trying to fool other persons.
Remember, take your time when getting to know anyone, whether it’s someone you meet in person or on our site or on any other internet site. And never send money to anyone you haven’t met in person.
We just had another scammer who joined our site with a similar “nanny scam” scenario… As with some previous scammers, this member had a profile showing a man with a child. As with previous apparently-male scammers, the user upgraded his membership with a payment, then sent the following message:
My name is james evans,i am sorry for contacting you this way but i believed you are good christain.Am a single father with a son named Dennis Evans,i worked as a construction engineer but self employed and i lived in london.United kingdom. So am in need of a babysitter for my son and i will be paying you the sum of 500 pounds weekly as your wages,so if you have interest in helping me look after my son and you do have a valid passport. Send me a message me on my id firstname.lastname@example.org for more details of the job and do not take this message as insult if its looks beyond your standard.
We have not yet heard of any of our ladies who has fallen prey to any of these scammers who have tried to infiltrate our site. We hope that we continue with that record, and in order to do so we commit to continuing to educate all of our members about the fraudsters who attempt to join our site, and we commit to continue our high degree of vigilance of our members who apply to join our site. If at some time, an honest person has his or her profile suspended, we apologize for this. If this happens to you, please calmly contact us through our feedback form and/or email so that we can investigate closely and fix any error we might make. We do our best to identify suspicious profiles and research them carefully to suspend them as soon as possible. Now after reading some of the stories, we hope you understand why we are so careful, occasionally even to a fault.