Location: Alabang, Muntinlupa, Province of Rizal, Philippines
Criminal psychology, legal matters, constant learning, dichotomy of human relations, poverty alleviation, nature and animals, music, random stuff about fitness/nutrition, IF, martial arts/MMA/self defense, bushcraft, waste mgmt/recycling, volunteer works.
Hello there! :) I'm an old-fashioned woman who desires to touch the lives of the people that I've met and about to meet. Professionally, I'm a licensed Criminologist and just an inch away of becoming a full-fledged lawyer (God willing). I'm a born-again Christian who respects other's opinions, preferences and views in life. That being said, I don't shove my faith to anyone's throat and I'm also receptive to different ideas and philosophies in life. I consider myself to have a healthy mixture of an alpha and beta personalities, but I'm generally an introvert (INFJ) who would always prefer a quiet moment by myself or with those who are very close to me. I'm decent, driven and family oriented.
I wish I could let others see what's inside my heart and mind to give them a clear picture of who I am as a person (because I believe these are the attributes that should matter), but I don't like blowing my own trumpet, let alone make myself appear better than other women. Simply put, I believe that a man's success greatly depends on the kind of woman he chooses to have in his life. If there's an off chance that I'd be able to meet a "gem in a rubble", he can be assured that he has found a needle in a haystack (modesty aside). I'm far from being perfect, but I'm definitely real.
When it comes to dating, my approach is more realistic and skin deep. I don't expect the guy to be a GQ model type for I'm no Victoria's Secret model either. I also have zilch interest in talking to random guys because it somehow makes me feel like a player. Let's say if I'm equally interested in someone, expect that I would devote my time in getting to know him seriously. I'm not a serial dater who's looking for the next attractive guy/big fish available that I can have on my speed dial. If I was born a man, I believe I shouldn't let the woman feel confused about my intention of getting to know her. There's nothing more saddening than to be used as a "rebound" or a past time by someone. I hope that's his thought process too.
I'm taking chances on this site because I'm praying to be found by a kindred spirit who desires to honor God and make Him the center and foundation of our relationship that hopefully will lead to marriage. Here's to hoping that I could live up to 70 years or more so I could prove to him that not all women are the same, that not all women are gold diggers/users/freeloaders and superficial. I wish I could let him know that just like him, I'm longing to be found by someone serious...someone who knows that communication, honesty, loyalty and respect are great foundations of a relationship. I may not be one of the prettiest, sexiest, smartest and richest girls out there, but I know for a fact that I have a good heart (modesty aside). I'm also saving myself for marriage and will not engage in any pre-marital affairs. That's the vow that I've been keeping for the longest time for my future husband. I believe that marriage is more than just a piece of paper... it is a covenant between the husband and wife that is meant to be protected and treasured for a life time.
A man with substance is all I'm after. Men with pretty faces and nice bodies are almost everywhere, but those with great character are hard to find...
I hope to meet someone who considers himself a keeper and serious/sincere with his intentions. My idea of something "fun" isn't related to debauchery, so I hope he's on the same page. While my goal is to meet someone with a great potential, I honestly believe that it's important to become friends first. If nothing blossomed out of that friendship, well, it's still a win-win situation for us since we've gotten the chance to know each other thru this medium. :) I'd like to stress that I'm here to connect with someone who's also hoping to find his lifetime partner. I know it sounds serious, but I'm here for all the right reasons.