Location: Los Angeles, California, United States
For those ladies who completely avoid divorced men for fear of comitting adultery, divorce and re-marriage are allowed in the Holy Scriputures provided they meet certain criteria. The Catholic teaching and the law of the Philippines which disallow divorce completely have no basis in the Holy Scriptures. There are two instances wherein they are allowed. The first instance that a separation or divorce is allowed is, if one is married to an unbeliever (not a born-again or to me, those who equate salvation with faith plus works) and that unbelieving spouse leaves. "But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace." -- 1 Corinthians 7:15 KJV. The second and last instance is adultery. A man/woman has the right to file for divorce if his/her spouse is having sex with another person or is committing/had committed fornication. "But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery." -- Matthew 5:32 KJV. My separated wife, I believe, was guitly on those two instances wherein the Bible allows for a divorce, thereby, allowing me to marry once again if I choose to.
If you want to investigate or to learn more about divorce and re-marriage, you can go to this link: www.gracechurch.org/about/distinctives/divorce-and-remarriage or google "divorce and remarriage grace community church". Grace Church or Grace Community Church is pastored by Dr. John MacArthur.
The woman I'm seeking must be willing to accept a would-be divorcee like me and won't mind my age (52 y.o.). She must be willing to marry me and relocate here in the States. I prefer a born-again Baptist like myself but I will consider someone willing to abandon her Catholic faith and become a Baptist instead. She must want to have kids, at least 2, so ladies past the age of 30 will have a hard time convincing me why I should be interested in them. She must take to heart Ephesians 5:22 KJV which states, "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord."
In return, I will love her (and our would-be children) with all my heart for the rest of my life, for it is written in Ephesians 5:22 KJV, "So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself." And if needed, I will lay down my life for her and I will be the most uncomfortable member of my would-be family, sacrificially subordinating my own needs to their needs because I take seriously what Ephesians 5:25 states in the King James version, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it."