Hello. I am a widow. My husband, who was the only man in my life, passed away when my youngest child, a son, was only a year old. I brought my 4 children all by myself. I sent my two elder daughters to college and now they have families of their own. I am looking for a man who I can hold hands with, spend romantic nights with, and doing romantic little things with. I believe that love is insignificant without respect and loyalty. If you are looking for a pretty and sexy woman, that is not me. But if you are looking for a smart, loyal, romantic and hardworking woman, that is me. i am a teacher, author and editor of books. I also work for our mayor as resource person/speaker and community organizer.