Jim

Hi, I'm Jim!
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I am here seeking a friend & companion & love, & if God's Will, my wife.
Btw, I am not a computer whiz---But I understand when some people get impatient
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I'm a healthy 72 & a little chubby---if that bothers you, stop reading . :-)
I don't drink or smoke or do drugs---if that bothers you---stop reading! :-)
After my work is done, my reward is being with my woman - friend - love - partner-in-life---being a one-woman man.
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But to continue--I'll call this my LoveLetter to Filipinas---
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May I also say that I am so enchanted with Asian women & Filipinas, especially!
I love their elegance, their smiling eyes & I love how Filipinas are devoted to their kids & family---as it should be!---protect them as they guide them. By contrast, I am saddened that many countrys treat abortion almost casually like piercing ears or something---& call themselves civilized?!?
Please, my friends---stay away from abortion! Destroying a life is too heart-breaking a price---
western women have been groomed to believe that they are somehow 'liberated' by this godless practice---& their wounds are deep & lifelong---& it shows. I pray that Filipinas don't be tricked by this liberal abortion poison---
God MUST be incredibly pleased with His Filipina Daughters---I am also touched that Filipinas share that they want to be in relationships with their men.....
what can lift a man more than to know that his loving woman believes in him? Trusts him? Saves herself for him & their marital passion? Such a woman is surely the crown that her man wears & I pray that a beautiful Filipina could make my life what my Father in Heaven designed it to be! :-)
I live in the middle of mostly rural USA.
I have 3 kids who I deeply love, they are all on their own. Btw, we are Believers & life is just SO much better when I associate with other Believers.
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My hobbies? I am fascinated by designing & inventing---I got that from my Dad---he could design & invent to solve any problem, & it is important to me to honor him & my Mom for the gifts & lessons they taught me. I'd love to find my partner who understands that I need to be frugal & need to work to be financially stable---especially in times like these.
You & I against the world!
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Before any permanent relationships, I have been increasingly thinking about employing someone for a work assistant - a companion - caretaker - housekeeper---
(can you drive? Will we live?) :-)
---with the idea that if we could work together, we'd discover what makes each other tick---or not tick---& know if the next step makes sense.
I'd also like to again be clear that I do NOT drink or smoke---& I would prefer someone the same. It is so puzzling how people convince themselves that alcohol & smoking are some kind of 'reward' that they deserve---and you & I have seen relationships destroyed when someone is unable to deal with the kind of person that they become when they drink---& while smoking isn't that way, I will not kiss an ashtray. :-)
Please excuse my opinions, but such is life.
I DO pray that God blesses me with The Filipina that He has planned & designed for me---& I simply am convinced that alcohol does NOT bring out the best in ANYthing---& certainly NOT relationships---& if you disagree, ok---but I believe God trusts me to be firm on this---Ok? :-) You will just not be with me.

Fyi, my parents farmed & loved working together & I loved growing up & watching this happy & loving relationship.
Until I lost my wife, we were much this way---& I hope SO much that there is a lovely Filipina that shares my belief in building a future together. :-) I can also understand that some Filipinas may not agree---if so, stop reading now. :-) & no harm done, ok?
If we can start as me employing you, obviously, you would make income, while we do our 'test-drive.' People can usually learn SO much more about each other by working together. (FYI, for work purposes, this involves developing your sales & marketing skills as well as the above-mentioned work &--- some days are demanding---I feel like there has to be an age cutoff---sorry! I think that age 43-53 is like combining your beauty with a 'flexible' intellect & an interest in learning my business plus you also need to be comfortable with people interaction. I also believe in gardening---I just don't have enough time. so maybe some of that, too.
FYI, I have strong reasons why I refused to take The Shot or masks or anything like it---I appreciate others who did not get the shot---
I am afraid time will tell the longterm fallout from submitting to the Shot.

I'm not always here because I work full time---
like you, I check my 'mail when I've got time.
Remember, it is important to me to keep my business going b/c it feeds me! :-)
I have work that I must do. Plus---I like my work!
Being busy is hard to return 'mail, BUT I am NOT a scammer. I am a hard working guy. I also don't need impatient people in my life---here OR there---so Please be patient---Or pass me by.
ALSO!!! With my workload, I simply cannot reply to everyone---
& like you, I need to feel an attraction---

I've lived through some times of economic difficulty---when times were beyond 'bad, ' & a horrible struggle---& the reason I must say that IF you are in debt & want me to pay your debt---I must view this as you wanting to find someone for your debt more than wanting a man to make a life with---the reality is that I have worked & saved with all my strength & I can't--& won't---allow myself to be saddled with your debt burden. I survived incredible pressures caused by debt & I can't be put in that position again---b/c as you know---God's Word is that debt = slavery---look around at the world---you know that this is true.
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I see so many pix of Filipina's enjoying the ocean.
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Sorry! I'm about as far from an ocean as I can be. And if you live for the ocean, I understand, I just don't have this. (Find Nebraska on a globe!---I think that my state is like Phillipine province, yes? not metro)
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I feel like I should mention this IF you can't live without the ocean.
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Please remember, too, with my business, I will not relocate---sorry!

I want to share anything that would matter,
so again, please ask if you have questions.
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Jim
PS I ask that scammers stay away!
I have detected / sensed some scammers &
CF have urged me to report scammers, as CF has protocol to deal with them---
Btw, please have pics & a profile---after all, you can see me---& I typically delete non-pics & non-profile contacts---

Sooo, thanks for reading my lengthy profile.
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I ask you to understand that I am not always here because of my work demands & the expense---sorry!
I so appreciate Filipina smiles---when I see CF profiles, & so many lovely smiles, the world is a better place---& until I become a member here, I ocaisionally wink so you know "I noticed you" & my way to say hi.
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Because I grew up & lived on a farm, I simply see myself as a working man---I think the world is full of 'roosters' & I don't see myself as a 'rooster' who cannot pass by a mirror without admiring myself---I am just me. Please understand that I am happily God's son.
I so hope that you can accept me as I am.
I just ask God to bless me with His Filipina daughter---& I will be so thankful---& i am saving my first Filipina-Hug for you when I first see you---
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Fyi, every morning when I & my 2 kitties walk, I pray for God to bless me with His Filipina daughter in His Perfect Time & Perfect Plan. :-)
So, please, everyone, be safe---& let us all remember that if we are still breathing---God is not done with us yet---
&---from my house to yours---
I wish you God's Blessings---
and God's Grace---
Peace
Jim