Emz

I am adventurous and risk taker.

I live a flexible life, bouncing between a series of activities that interest me.

If someone loves me, i'll only believe their actions. Words don't mean a whole lot to me.

I see myself as: Reasonable, proficient, and tough.

I am remarkable when it comes to relating with others.

I am warm and open. Even when life gets me down, am unafraid of the world and its challenges.

I am comfortable with who i am. And i accept my weaknesses - as well as the weaknesses of others.

While im quite stable, i don't respond perfectly to every bad situation that comes up.

But i have enough emotional intelligence to know when i need a course correction.

Crafty and creative, i can able to adapt freely to almost any situation.

People tend to underestimate me, unless they've truly seen what i am capable of. My mind is constantly active. I am quite capable of anything i dream of.

I am a very happy person. Generally, i feel content and that all is right with the world.

Occasionally, i have a down day - but i have the ability to pick myself right back up.

What am I looking for in a relationship? Good question…

As someone who’s been single all of her life, here are the 10 things I looks for in a relationship:

The chemistry between me and my potential date. It is a matter of, do we click together or not? If we don’t match, then why am I wasting my time on this relationship? I will know for sure if we’re a match or not.

Honesty. When I talk to you, are you open with me as I am open with you? Ask me anything and I’ll be 100% honest and straightforward about it. When someone’s honest.

Trust. Trust follows the same direction as honesty. I have a hard time trusting people in life. When I create friends, I don’t open up my trust easily. It is a matter of time. When I’m in a relationship, I start off as friends and test the trust level. As the years' progress, I might open up easily. Can I trust you, with anything—that’s the question.

A good listener. You see, one of my negative qualities is that I repeat myself a lot. When I’m bored, I talk a lot and may repeat the same topic over and over again. When I’m seeking in a relationship with someone, I’m looking for someone who’s willing to listen to my non-sense shenanigans to all the way of my stories. You know, someone’s whos your best friend but also your partner.

Someone who’s willing to be my best friend. In every relationship, it starts off as best friends or close friends. What I look for in a relationship is someone who’s my best friend—that I’m willing to share my thoughts with.

My motivator. I want someone who’s willing to motivate each other. You see, I am a positive person. At times when I fail, I go hard on myself. I tend to push myself negatively down that I want someone who’s willing to hold me till the end. You know, someone who thinks positive in life.

Be true to yourself. Look, I’d rather you to stay true to yourself. I would rather know your bad real quality than your fake characteristic quality. I would rather love the real you. Stay weird, an outcast and yourself. Don’t pretend to be someone else they say.

A good sense of humour & can make a girl smile. In most relationships, humour is the key to happiness. I don’t like being in a relationship where the relationship is dry. Sprinkle a bit of humour and precious compliments, and you can make a girl smile. Plus, you can make me smile ;)

Someone who’s comfortable around anyone.

Whether it be your ex, my ex (lol I don’t have any), my friends or yours—or even family, you are comfortable being around with anyone.

Lastly, someone who’s willing to compromise, be kind and loving. I will give all of my 100% emotions to you if you’re willing to give up yours. Its simple relationship math calculation. In addition, someone who’s willing to deal with their problems on their own and accept it—that makes them grow as an individual.

To be honest, this may not apply to all relationships out there. Maybe my man one day may not have all of these qualities—but he should have some of these qualities in a relationship in mind.

Am I looking for a relationship? Maybe yes, maybe not.

I don’t mind the race and I am open to long-distance relationships. I will see what life throws at me and we will see what happens next. :)