I am 47 but I look younger, my job is physical and I exercise to try and stay young.
I do not smoke, never have
I do not drink, I never really like the taste
I have been married, and it was for almost half my life, 23 years..... I thought it was forever, but I was wrong. I am going to be right this time.
I have two kids, 18 and 23 they are moving forward with their lives as young adults do, they no longer live at home.
As far as kids go, this is a serious discussion we would have.
I think its unlikely that I would want to father another child.
I also know its possible/probable that any woman I might meet will have children all ready, that is understandable and I will approach with an open mind.
I am a hard working guy, I have a good job tho it is demanding. I know there is a balance to be struck here, I will admit sometimes I struggle to find it. I will never let you forget that you come first in my life.
What if I thought a really great night might be me cooking you dinner (...did I mention I like to cook for you?) and we either go for a walk or maybe watch a movie. or maybe we go out for dinner and either a walk or go out to a movie, something like that, would you consider that a good night? I am a pretty simple, hard working guy. I am not saying its never going to be any more fun or adventurous than this, but I think this is a great night.
I do not want to mislead anyone, so to be clear I am more spiritual however I give you 100% respect for your belief, we can make this work.
What I am looking for:
I am looking for a partner in life, not a woman that wants to only be looked after. Yes of course I will look after my lady, this goes without saying however, the woman in my life is to be equal, she is a hard worker and has goals and aspirations of her own. I want to assist her, to support her, to help facilitate her in realizing these goals and aspirations.
I want to truly build a partnership and life together. I will have her back and she will have mine, always.
I know its short and I will add more about me and what my plans for our future are later.
Join me, lets live, love, laugh and grow together.
ladies I will tell you this up front, for me It is a must that you are willing to relocate to Canada.
Like so many ladies on here state "they are serious here, not for games"
I feel the same way.
Please be ready and willing to have meaningful conversation.... often. I am looking for a life partner. I am going to have lots of questions, know this up front.
Ok, so I understand if things work out and I am lucky enough to connect with someone that we will be living within the constraints of a long distance relationship for a time. That being said I expect the time to be used to try and mitigate the distance and to try and have some sort of normalcy and resemblance to an actual relationship. To foster and grow as you would normally, to me its the only way I can see overcoming the distance and time needed for it to all work. I am happy to clarify with you, just ask. If we cant agree on this point, im sorry but I just cant invest the time. Ive tried and it just didn't work.
(Please, don't assume the worst ask me I will explain it)