Claire

I am here for the same reason, to find someone to spend my lifetime with. I am not here to waste your time nor mine. Let us put this in serious matter, this should not be a game because we are all grown ups here. If you are into it, then I am the wrong person so please don't bother me. Talking about scam, as often I read, I am sorry but I am a very principled woman. I will never compromise my integrity over the thing I know I can work hard for. In fact, I just want to live simply. I can find my happiness and contentment over simple things esp. when I am with the best people I have chose to live with.
I will withdraw my account once I found the right one for me, may it be here or anywhere else. Being faithful is very important to me, so expect that from me in return. I still believe in modest and real relationship, distance is never a barrier as well as race. Age, it is only a number, maturity is more important than age. So long as love is reciprocal, then I do not see any problem with that. Love can always be created by two individuals. It is just a matter of acceptance and being together, learning from each other...we actually do not know what is ahead of us.
If you got children, that is fine with me...I love children. That is part of your past that I am more than willing to embrace. Loving someone is about loving people they love and accepting them for who they are without any judgement. We are all not blessed with perfect past that is exactly why future is created. Just be honest about yourself. That is all that matters. I cannot promise a perfect relationship, there is no such thing as that. For sure there will be fights or misunderstandings because that is part of every great relationship. But there will always be more of love than that...love will surpass whatever tosses in our paths...and nothing can win over that.
I want someone real because I am. God bless.