Jen

An *ideal man* looks different for everyone ❤️ but for a *serious relationship*, there are some core things that really matter.

It’s not about 6-pack abs or how much money he has. It’s about character.

- *Respectful*: To me, to waiters, to his family, to women in general
- *Honest*: Even about small things. No lies, no hiding
- *Loyal*: He chooses me and protects the relationship
- *Responsible*: Has a job, pays bills, keeps promises. Doesn’t blame everyone else
- *God-fearing / Has values*: Whatever his faith is, he lives by it. This is big in Filipino culture

- *Consistent*: Good morning texts, replies, shows up. Not hot and cold
- *Patient*: Doesn’t rush me to meet, send pics, or say "I love you" in 1 week
- *Communicates*: Talks through problems instead of ghosting or yelling
- *Makes me feel safe*: Emotionally and physically. You don’t feel anxious with him

- *Family-oriented*: Has a good relationship with his family. Wants kids/family someday if you do
- *Hardworking*: Not about being rich. About being reliable and having direction
- *Mature*: Can apologize. Can control anger. Thinks before acting

- *Sense of humor*: Can laugh with me

Real men have flaws. The ideal man just has the _right_ flaws and the _right_ someone whose values match mine
If family, faith, and loyalty matter to you, then find a man who says AND shows the same.

When you’re clear on that, it’s so much easier to spot him and not waste time on the wrong ones 💛