Michael

A good man is not soft or convenient. He is not always available. He is disciplined, he has boundaries and values, and priorities of his own.<br /> These do not bend or shift based on a woman's mood or because she is upset.<br /> A "Good man" is not controlling, he creates the order. There is no room for chaos, arguments, or drama.<br /> He commands respect, clarity and peace.<br /> <br /> This is where women get it confused. When she has never met a mature man, she will mislabel "everything".<br /> She will call him cold, because he doesn't tolerate any nonsense. She will call him selfish, because he takes care of himself. And she will call him narcissistic because he refuses to beg for approval.<br /> That is not selfishness, that is maturity. He is man who refuses to be drained, used or manipulated.<br /> <br /> Good men do not move from insecurity we move from conviction. We will not ever chase drama. We do not chase attention and we sure certainly don't chase "validation" from women.<br /> We build, we lead, and provide structure.<br /> <br /> The harsh truth:<br /> Most women aren't even ready for the responsibility that comes with being with a "Good man". This is because a good man is not an emotional rollercoaster, he is not unpredictable, and it's not a game.<br /> He is stable, extremely consistent, and has direction.<br /> <br /> So for women addicted to chaos, wounded by the past relationships they were in, or raised by dysfunction..... Then stability feels boring, until she loses it.<br /> <br /> A "Good man" requires partnership.<br /> He requires respect and a woman who is emotionally regulated. "NOT" reckless with her emotions.