widower. retired. well read, well traveled. college degree. devout christian. looking for a wife, best friend, joyful companion. I have been on this site for a few weeks now and wud like to clarify a few things and make some comments. When i say i am a christian that means CHRIST is my Lord and savior, While i don't think it is wise for a 65 year old man to be having children i am fine/pleased to be as much of a father to your children as they will allow. I read that many of you have been hurt by previous relationships and are frightened to have your hearts broken one more time. I can tell you we all feel that way. I have been very moved/impressed by the gentle nature of your comments and what i see/feel in your gracious nature. A lot of Americans have become hardened and very self indulgent and are always looking out for themselves before anyone else. They don't even understand what they have lost. Our great material success has produced a lot of arrogant behavior. I am looking for a wife to share our lives together. I am not in need of a cook or a maid.I enjoy cooking and you can count on me to share this responsibility. I like a women who is willing to speak her mind and let me know what she is thinking. I am not interesting in changing you. I love how women view the world and look at life in a way we males simply do not comprehend. I will be upgrading next month. and will be traveling to your country as soon as i sell my home. It is my hope to live in your country and experience your culture. I wish all of you great joy and to receive the desires of your hearts.