Location: Aurora, CO, United States
I should probably add this. I understand that cultures vary, I've travelled and worked in Europe and Asia, but I'm still American and while I'm clearly looking outside my country for a woman, it doesn't mean I understand you or what you're used to acting like. I need patience. If the first thing you ask me is to talk outside of CF I am probably not going to answer, not because I'm not interested but because it's too soon. I prefer to email and talk for a short while first, I find it easier to be clear and avoid misconceptions in writing letters. Oh, one or two things more. I love dogs and horses if you're afraid of them I promise to help you overcome those fears. I know my profile talks a lot about my admiration for single mothers, but it doesn't mean I'm only looking for that - it simply means that if you have children I will love them as well and I have no judgements about your past - as I hope you will not judge mine. If you're hoping for children with me, I'm open to that too. I intend to have a family, and that means everybody is included - wherever we settle your family will be as welcome in our home as I'm sure they welcomed me when we first meet.
If you're afraid I'm a player or scammer, I understand, I have the same fears. Probably the biggest one is that I might miss signs that indicate you are less than honest or have poor spending habits, as the keeper of our household you should have my full trust - if you do not wish to share this trust please pass me by. Believe it or not when I look at the backgrounds behind a woman in the pictures they post, I look for the manner in which you keep your surroundings, and much prefer a picture of you sitting in your own home surrounded by your life, over a picture on a vacation or at a fancy store. Please believe I seek a woman who is modest, kind and beautiful on the inside first. I am not a nag about money or possessions, and I will always be your champion in all things. Our love should grow every day, and anger will never cross our threshold.
As a final note, I'm an American - you are Phillipino - there will be cultural differences that will make both of us scratch our heads and become a little frustrated. While I use social media, and clearly also CF, I am not defined by it. If you think that scratching around like a chicken on Facebook or twitter or Skype or google is going to give you any idea of who and what I am you should prepare yourself for a shock. I friend random people on all those accounts, I do not post anything personal on them aside from occasional tidbits about my day, for about five years Facebook believed me to be a 90 year old Chinese woman living in South America. I started doing it as a fun game, but now I simply do not like the idea that a complete stranger can examine my life. My friends and family know who and what I am, and I'd love to have you learn about me as well - but please do so by talking to me, not stalking me.