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38 Years Old, Male

About Matthew

USER ID: 533402

Location: Norman, Oklahoma, United States

Note: I'm only interested in a serious relationship with a BAPTIST woman with NO CHILDREN. Relationships are hard enough without differences in beliefs, so I want someone of a similar belief system.

I'm a Christian first, Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior.

I have never been married, have no children (the kids are my nephew and nieces in the pictures with me), and am looking for a good Christian woman with whom I could someday start a family.

I prefer a simple life, and like to work with my hands, building things, gardening and researching what interests me. I'm currently trying to build a woodworking/carpentry business making furniture and novelty items, and some basic construction.

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I once went on a hike, just me and God. I was hurting and confused because all my efforts to find a wife had been in vain. I prayed while I hiked, for understanding, for relief, for fulfillment and for release from my desire for a wife, yet God did not answer.

At the halfway point, I turned around and began walking back in silence. I thought about what God could possibly be teaching me in this, and my mind turned to the path I was walking. I knew where the trail led even if I couldn't see the twists and turns ahead, all I had to do was walk the steps in front of me. I thought to myself it's the same with trusting God.  I could try going my own way, but I would get hurt, lost or worse; or I could follow the path God has laid out for me, knowing it will ultimately end with Him no matter what unseen turns it may take.

When I came to this realization, I heard a small plane flying low directly overhead, and I looked up. After it passed, in the high altitude clouds -barely wisps against the sky- I saw a rainbow appear, inverted, as though God was smiling down on me. It disappeared a few seconds later as the clouds dispersed.  I believe I was the only one to see that rainbow, because God made it just for me in that moment. The rainbow was a promise that He is working for my benefit.

The path isn't easy and I stumble from time to time, but God is faithful even when I'm not. I really want someone to share this walk with me.

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I'm looking for a Proverbs 31 woman, with the qualities exhibited by Esther, Ruth, and Mary, and other Godly women. I value honesty, purity and temperance, and greatly appreciate a woman who takes care in how she presents herself.  She must also believe as a baptist or at least have a baptist background.

She must be feminine in appearance, with long hair and modest dress; in attitude, being respectful to me and others, listening to wisdom, not demanding or belligerent; and in speech, not vulgar and never publicly speaking badly of me or others, building up instead of tearing down. She will follow my lead, celebrating in our successes, and depending on me while being a source of strength in our difficult times.

I don't deserve such a woman, and I know that I will never find such a woman, until God puts her into my life.

God made woman not from man's head to be over him; nor from his foot to be stepped on; nor from his hand to be merely a tool. God made her from man's rib, to be at his side and to protect his heart.

Additional Information

Prefers to Meet Age:
18 to 34 (Strict age limits: no)
Marital Status:
High School Graduate or Some College
Caucasian (white)
Body Type:
220 lbs (99.7 Kg)
6' 2" (188 cm)
Have children:
Want children:
Preferred Bible Version:
King James
Christian / Baptist
Willing to Relocate:
Member Since: November 4, 2015
Last logged in: Nov 16, 2018

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