Jani

I'm a 37 year old man from Finland. I've never been to the Philippines nor have i ever dated anyone from there.

I was in a relationship for 8+ years with a finnish woman, that ended because ultimately she didn't want to have children. That was a non-negotiable for me, thus i'm now single.

So i looked around my area on who was available and i didn't like the selection one bit. Single mothers, feminists, women with many tattoos and piercings. Not appealing for me. Thus i figured: "why not look for outside the country?"

That is why i'm here. I'm hoping to find a woman (not a ladyboy) for a long term relationship. I most definitely want children.

An important thing that YOU must know before you contact me is: I'm NOT going to get married. Not to you, not to anyone. I view marriage as an institution that is fundamentally anti-male, thus i'm not going to take part in it.

Now sure, if there was a union just between 2 people (and perhaps the covenant) then i would be more willing, but hence marriage today is a business of the states, i have 0 interest in it.

So if a legal marriage is a must for you, i'm not the one. If you don't care about that and you just want your person regarless of the legal status, then i might be the one.

I'm a free user on this site so i can't see messages. I have no intention to become a paid member (i'm not paying 300 dollars just to talk to you.) so there is no point for you to message or wink at me unless you are a paid member. If this means we will never talk, that is fine too, clearly God didn't intend us to be together.

Might see you in the future.
-Jani