James

I don't have a paid membership yet so right now I'm just looking. I'll plan on reaching out to those that have taken interestin me and sent a message, saved to a buddy list, or sent a wink if I'm interested in those individuals.

A little about myself and then things I would like in a relationship being I've started so late with thinking of a family.

*** Single, never married, and no children, for getting to know me and what I would really prefer in a relationship you should read everything below. Long read, but worth your time to see if we are a real match or not. Thanks and much love... there's someone out there for all of us never give up.***

Just browsing the site until I travel to the Philippines hopefully next year around August 2025. I most likely won't be messaging until late December to January when I do a membership for a few months leading up to when I visit the Philippines. I'm real cautious on what I do and how fast I take steps in anything I do. I'm very serious about meeting a woman or women and starting off my family life. If you're interested in knowing more and want to meet me in person when I travel there for a friendship, as an intimate partner, or networking for possibly very long term investments in the community let me know by sending a message I'll read in the next few months. Thanks, one love James......


About me: I work two jobs one in construction on a more maintenance side at a refinery in the next state over from Texas which is Louisiana. The second job I have is working as a prison guard and I work this only on the weekends Saturday and Sunday. I enjoy both my jobs and the prison job allows me to have decent Healthcare and paid off time. I do all types of work at the refinery from road repair, plumbing, fixing doors, operating construction equipment like different types of forklifts, tracs for digging, backhoes, and a small dump truck. At the prison I use to work the dorms where I monitored a little over 200 inmates or the walkway directing inmate movement to about 1, 000 to 2, 000 inmates at different times depending on the position given that day. Now when I work Saturday and Sunday it's only for what's called visitation the times that better inmates get time to see their families in person or on a video tablet. It's not a bad job and most the inmates usually have good interactions during this time.

I'm the youngest of three sons which both of my parents passed away when I was 34 years old. I don't have any association with any of my family members except one Aunt and my Stepmother... that's out of the grown-ups. I do however have a pretty good relationship with my former Sister-in-law, her Husband, and his family. My Nieces and my Nephew are all I have as real blood since I don't have any children of my own.

I'm a simple man and I'm easily impressed with just sitting around or getting in the car or on the motorcycle and leaving town for a bite to eat in another city. I could just lay around with a lady friend and just cuddle up or go on an adventure.... anything is fair game. I don't really do too much on my own however I don't mind coming up with a plan that the two of us can enjoy or meet up with friends for the moment.

I'm handy, and I like to be creative. I see a lot of potential in restoration and would love to get my shop built asap just to do little builds and have a place to store my creative projects. I'm a pretty good all around worker and mechanic, it may take me some time to get over my fear of starting something new I have no clue on fixing... but I after I start it's gonna get done.

I enjoy nature, people watching, and taking rides around seeing the sights. I have many little plans to build a garden, greenhouse, beehives, bat house like a large one to eat bugs, chicken coop, fish pond, amongst a few other things here at my house. I have about 1 acre of property and I own my house. I don't really have money I just have been blessed or fortunate to get what I have. All my vehicles are paid off and the only thing I owe money on is a motorcycle note.

What I honestly would like if I were to be really honest is to have children with multiple beautiful, smart, reasonable, motivated women.... possibly from other countries all over. I've been single for a while and I rarely date at the moment. I've taken time to take care of my parents when they needed me and that was a big portion of my life that took a lot of my energy. I didn't start any relationship that held up during that time and I've been scared to be unprepared for having children while many people around me have had multiple children that are grownups now. I would love to see a portion of me in another small human being and be able to call them my children. I don't have a very long time to have a lot of children with one woman hence the reason as to why I say multiple women. Remember some of you ladies have children that if we were to begin a relationship I would take care of them just like they were my own. In all fairness I should be able to have children with whoever and be honest with you about this before hand and everyone be comfortable and meet with each other like one large family.

This brings me to another point. I want to not only meet someone I want her to be able and ready to grow in what she does and wants to do to improve her situation. I want to eventually build a house wherever and with whoever I'm dating. I want to look into building a business with whoever I have children with so her and the kids have a legacy to hold onto and help up lift her family (parents and other relatives). I don't mind eventually investing in to the family of who I'm dating, I would love to give back to those that have given me someone to have a relationship and children with.

My goal is to start with this site meeting multiple women and see who are the best individuals for me. I will eventually begin communicating with these ladies 6 months or so before I visit the Philippines in attempts to start some type of relationship whether it be friends or something more serious. I'm not looking for anything physical when I'm there learning all about my future partner or partners, and after returning to the States I'll see where these relationships go. When I do meet one or more women with the same goals in mind then when I return to the Philippines on the next visit I would like to work on having children to even see if it's possible for either of us. If nothing happens then possibly there could be alternatives like getting a doctor's help with pregnancy.

If there's no one interested in the way I want to do with my life choices then that's okay as well. I've been single and enjoying my life for a while now, I just would like to share a better life with someone or others over my life's entirety.

Hope this long about me gives you a better understanding of how upfront and honest I want to be with our relationship. I want the best for not only you, but for me as well and that means I need to be happy to the fullest as well. I only have one life to live and to me I feel like I'm starting it late and have a lot of catching up to do.

Love you all, thanks for getting to understand me a bit before we meet. Until then I wish you love and happiness.