Brian
65 Years Old, Male
Location: River Rouge, Michigan, United States
About Brian
Location: River Rouge, Michigan, United States
Now please allow me to share something with you that I learned about a few years ago, for it was deeply touching to me. I read an article about a survey of married American women. In the survey, they were all asked what it is their husbands do for them that they appreciate the most. The most popular answer was so simple and yet so tender that I was startled a bit. The majority of the wives responded simply: "When he is kind to me!”
What Filipino woman would not agree that kindness is the greatest response that can be given by any man? Tell me please, what more can we ask of each other as a loving and devoted couple? Think just a moment of the thousands of books that have been written by so many well intended authors, whose only goal was to help struggling couples work out their relationship problems. Millions of pages have been written, who could have thought that it all could be found in just one word, “Kindness!” Well, imagine that!
So, as a “real man” in our future relationship I will pray to our lord that he would fill me with not only a sweet love for you but also that he would put an abundance of kindness in my heart for you so that I can show you the love and the kindness that you deserve.
I need to be your best friend, for a friend always listens, a friend always cares, and always shows love and concern. Again, always! A friend is always there to comfort and lift up! More than this, a friend is someone who always makes us laugh and helps us to forget so easily what we were so worried about, moments before! So, my prayer every day will be that the Lord will fill our loving home with laughter. That the Lord would give us the gift of laughter and kindness, and what an amazing gift this will be!
A woman needs to feel the gentle support of her man in every way, to make her feel safe and truly loved for who she is as a woman. A woman needs to feel that she can trust and depend on her man. Trust is not just important, but it is vital! I will pray that God gives me the ability to give this to you every day of our lives. Again, to be a “real man!”
Life is often complicated but let us hope that because we have each other’s support, we can encourage each other with so much love, and so many kind words of encouragement. We need to pray together as a couple, and we need to pray for each other as we both live our everyday lives. Prayer can only strengthen the love and the bond between us. It can only result in more kindness between us, and our future family! Please be in prayer about all of these things!
May the Lord Jesus bless you richly!
Brian!
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