Seth

Single guy looking for the right woman. I am not a game player or shallow, but at the same time just because I am a man, I am not attracted to every woman I see. I must be both physically and mentally attracted to you. I am not expecting someone perfect, because I am not. I am also not every womans ideal man... To help you know me better and how my mind works I have a list of things that I am looking for below. See where you fit in...

HARD RULE – No lady boys, transgender, scammers or the like... Real natural born women interested in a relationship only please.

SOFT RULE – I am looking for someone who has some life experience. A woman in her 20s may be nice to look at, but I have children older than that so not really my thing. You should be at least 35yo... But I never say never...

You should be in a life position where you are physically and legally able to get married. I am looking for a best friend, lover and equal partner that will last for the rest of my life.

With the statement above you should be willing to sign a prenuptial agreement designed to protect both of us.

MUST be willing to relocate to the USA. Does not need to be a permanent move, but I am not retired yet and would like to work here until I retire.

I have children that are all adults. I am physically unable to have any more. You should have children of your own. It is ok if you do not, but I do not want you to feel you were cheated out of anything in life.

DO NOT ask me for money for any reason, you will not get it. To me it says scammer. Additionally, I do not want a woman who asks what I can do for her. I want a woman that asks “what can we build together” ...

Both of us would need to be happy in the bedroom. The road of life is full of bumps and potholes. Do not underestimate the power of a close loving relationship. It can overcome a whole lot of terrible things that life can throw at you, and it makes the good all that much better.

For me... cuddling, holding hands, hugging, kissing is better than or at least just as good as physical intimacy in the bedroom. That does not imply no bedroom intimacy. For example, while out shopping, I have no problem walking around holding hands with my girl. I am proud to say I am hers and she is mine.

I do not want a drawn-out long-distance relationship. While there must be a long-distance relationship in the beginning, 3 years is excessive. Within a few months of talking, both texting and face time chatting, we should know what we are thinking. Once at that point, we start making the arrangements to be together on a permanent basis. Of course I am referring to the right woman, not just any woman...

Yes, it was a list. I hope no one found it insulting, but this is what I am looking for. If you think you may be a good match let me know. I would love to talk with you more and get to know you better. Who knows, maybe we will click, maybe we won’t ...