Belle

We are here joining on the dating site since it is the best way for some of us to meet up, to communicate and to find a relationship.

I am a member here for a long time and I am not often here. I am single now since my late partner passed away. We met not on a dating site.

But here I am trying once more if God will bless me again with a good husband that has a good loving heart and who has also love for God. Someone who practice Christianity consistently.

It's not easy to know who really cares, loves purely and genuinely. People can be kind. But are they not being hypocritical?

Because some has selfish intentions and if we became attached emotionally it will lead us to failure because we chose the wrong person to love. I know God will still protect us and will lead us to those who have clean and pure intentions.

We should love honestly and truthfully. Best way possible is to start a good conversation being friendly and with respect. As it continues it will lead to good relationship and that way true love will grow so long as both are honest with their intentions.

I am a very simple woman who came from a simple family . I am on my 40s but still looking young with my age.

I met a non Christian before and I was trusting and believing that his intentions was genuine.

We have people who have those standards or condition that they are looking for like to have the same lifestyle, or life. That they must be more affectionate as him or her, must be active, must be more over him or her, must have the same belief system, must be engaged in sports, etc.

As a good Christian do we really rely on these in order for us to meet the one that God wants us to spend with for the rest of our lives?
Is this condition biblical?

Being a Christian I do not give conditions to meet a good man regarding lifestyle and activities for these things can be compromise.

Rather I am looking on those good internal values or attitude.
Also that a man is loving unconditionally , genuinely and not deceiving just to win the trust eventhough on the mindset the goal is selfish act because of immorality.

Doing activities together is just a plus.
Not unless it is really a prerequisite for some men would really want someone who have the same lifestyle.

People do have different lifestyle specially if both are coming from not the same country, it will be very challenging.
But if unconditional love and understanding exists then God exists in that relationship.

God never see if we are active or doing many things for our own sake. But what's important to God, are the good works of labor, respect, trustworthy, has integrity, faithful and loving unconditionally for God is love.

I Hope to meet a good, honest and loving Christian man that will lead to marriage.

Hope to meet Christian friends here too and probably may lead to marriage.

I love to visit nice places here in our country.

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How non practicing Christian men and some non believer are:

● Some men are immature, has selfish intentions and they are not looking for lifetime companion.
● Some men would like to meet not just one woman because they don't think monogamous relationship is a good idea.
● Some men don't want to commit to marriage and just want to use the woman as an object for their own body desire.
● Some men don't look on a woman who has good internal values (respectful, caring, sympathetic, empathetic, responsible etc..) rather they want someone who is wild and sexually active.
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1. Please take time to know someone seriously and willing to communicate thou sometimes it may not be consistent replies.

2. This is not a porn site please have descent mind and respect for God wants us to practice what is right.

3. If anything goes serious a man must plan to travel and meet up in real

4. If you were able to successfully find someone whose responsible and serious please stay with knowing well and put God in the center of this long distance relationship. For God knows the truth and desires of each ones goal if it is honest or not.

5. Always remember trust, honesty and loyalty is very important in a relationship. God is always present if we do what is pleasing to God's eye.

James 5:16 says, "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective

1 Corinthians 13:4-10
[4]Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant,

[5]does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered,

[6]does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;

[7]bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

[8]Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away.

[9]For we know in part and we prophesy in part;

[10]but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away.