TJ

SWM 6'2" 185# eyes/hair brn

I'm a happpy, successful, easy going and confident American male.

In my spare time I enjoy traveling, sports, cooking, and playing music.

My ideal mate would be one that is loyal, honest, confident, respectfull.

I enjoy getting to know someone as friends first and seeing if there is any common interests, as well as differences. It takes time for a relationship to build and for love to grow.

I have in the past, rushed into relationships that were only based on sexual chemistry, which at the time was fun, flirty, passionate and served a need, but in the end too exhausting and not very fullfilling.

I've come to realize that was just lust, it doesn't last and ultimately left me wanting more.
More substance, more communication, more time for getting know someone.

I believe in being with one woman at a time, being a serial dater just isn't for me. I'm getting ready to enter the next phase, chapter of my life and am planning to one day move. Hopefully if all goes well, to relocate somewhere in S.E. Asia

I hope to find on CF that special lady, that will take the time for us to get to know one another, be honest about our past, be able to discuss the present and be hopefull for the future.
P.S
I'm not presently not upgraded.