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Gines

49 Years Old, Female

About Gines

USER ID: 209751

Location: Manila, Philippines

I am a people person, kinda serious but love to have fun, be happy and enjoy life
to the fullest. Have good sense of humor and love to make people laugh.

I am outspoken but very considerate and loyal. I like open communication and love to
share my life to others and make a difference, if possible. I value trust and honesty in a
relationship.... no pretense please.

I look at the brighter side of life because there's more to it
than how we presently see it.

I have high regard for knowledge, organized and determined, somewhat independent-minded but respect individual views, opinions and preferences the same way that I expect them to respect mine. Optimistic in a way because I
believe that everything has a solution, just need to sit down, pray and figure
it out. A good confidant with listening ear, thoughtful and caring in my own
way.

What is love for me?

1 Cor 13:7 AMP
Love bears up under anything and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person, its hopes are fadeless under all circumstances, and it endures everything [without weakening].

Love is not an idea, but a decision & an action. When we love genuinely, we stay. We put up w/ everything & choose to hope, believe, persevere & endure even when we have lost all the reasons to. We never give up.

This s how God loves us, and this is how we are to love as well..... our loved one, His people & Him back, and we remain in His love.


WHAT TYPE AND QUALITIES AM I LOOKING FOR IN A RELATIONSHIP?

I am interested on friendship for a moment and let God's leading guide both of us to what we both deserve.

I am looking for someone who is a mature believer, loves Jesus and does things that makes God really proud, fun to be around, honest and interested in open communication, caring and thoughtful, romantic in his own way, someone who appreciates simple though little things, respects women, funny and can make me laugh, can be a good friend and confidant in everything, someone who can cherish and build me up when necessary, and a man of wisdom and good common sense.

Age range? Not too young that I'm almost like the mother...lol. Just kidding. I can easily get along with anybody...flexible in short. I grew up in the company of men in the family and friends, kinda tomboyish. I'm used to be with people of different ages being in church ministry. I don't believe on meeting people by accident. God definitely has a purpose....and it is always my desire to share my life with anyone in such a way that I can create change and make a difference as much as I learn from them and be a better person.





WHAT IS MY CHRISTIAN FAITH?

I surrendered my life to Jesus on April 1985 and since then I served and kept his word in my heart and life. The promise that my entire household will be saved too is partly fulfilled now.

My sole motivation is to live right before God and make Him proud like He did with Job, even under difficult circumstances. I am trying to live what I've learned on a daily basis. Seek God's help and guidance on areas where I'm struggling the most. Remind myself that though I am in this world, I am not of this world.

As a single woman looking for a "lifetime" partner, I am placing my heart in the hands of God knowing that he will place it in the hands of a man who He believes deserves it.

When hard time come, it is a good time to remember that my wonderful Heavenly Father has a plan for me (Jeremiah 29:11), and that according to Scripture, "No plan of yours can be thwarted" (Job 42:2).

Five test to know of a certainty if a plan is from God or not:
1. If it is God it will be better (Hebrews 11:40)
2. If it is God it will give me hope (Jeremiah 29:11)
3. If it is God it will give me a future (Jermiah 29:11)
4. If it is God it will give me joy (Proverbs 10:28)
5. If it is God it will have a sense pf permanence (Genesis 13:14-18)




WHAT ARE MY FAVORITE ACTIVITIES?

Not much.... but I love to study the scripture and pleased to teach people about it as well. To take part in someone's spiritual growth is very fulfilling.

I enjoy traveling and learn more about people and different cultures. I love taking pictures, hiking, biking, sightseeing, reading, watching documentaries, movies, musical, and sports. I also enjoy listening to various kind of music like Jazz and R&B but commonly gospel musics, bonding with my Christian friends and most of all bonding with my family.

I also love to sing as a hobby and to relieve from stress though singing doesn't love me.:) Once became a worship leader during college days thankful that nobody leaves during worship...lol) and few years ago I joined the choir to remain ministry involved before I decided to become a group/connect leader.

I enjoy sharing/participating in God's harvest field, leading people to Christ and watching/helping them grow in their faith and relationship with Him. I will continue and enjoy this ministry until God called me to do something else for his Kingdom.




WHAT ARE SOME OF MY PERSONAL GOALS IN LIFE?

My personal goals is first to be the kind of person/woman that God wants me to be.

Second is to be equipped in every aspect of my life and be capable of doing what God has planned and stored in for me.

As a woman, if I want to be a good wife and have a successful marriage, I must learn to submit to God first then the commandment to submit to my "future" husband will just flow naturally, with a promise of a good, happy and long lasting relationship because He who promised is faithful. A relationship of 3 cords is not easily shaken nor broken because God will always be the third cord to bind us together.






HOW DID MY PAST RELATIONSHIP ENDS AND WHAT POSITIVE LESSON I'VE LEARNED?

My fiance who is also my bestfriend for many years went home to be with the Lord. It was a relationship where God is the center, helping us grow in spirit as our friendship together progressed. Moving on and coping with his passing was never easy but with God nothing is really impossible. We are all living in a borrowed time so we kept our promise that no matter what we will remain faithful to God.

Positive lessons I've learned is to be what you are looking for because never can you give out something that you don't have. Open communication is a vital ingredients to make a relationship successful . Being true to your word because no relationship can build in pretense. Keep reassuring your mate about your love regardless of their flaw and shortcomings because we are all God's work in progress and we will commit many more mistakes in our lifetime. Never ignore any possibility of romance b'coz relationship needs to be nurtured too to keep the love alive and flame burning most especially to married couples .

Every relationship is a learning experience. Getting hurt is inevitable but at the end of the day, it makes you a better person. Pain and consequence for wrong choices and decisions are just part of the learning process. Sometimes we just learn the hard way so it's like we are paying for our education. The important thing is, we get up and start again because we will never be a failure unless we give up.

Additional Information

Prefers to Meet Age:
45 to 55 (Strict age limits: no)
Marital Status:
Single
Education:
Bachelors degree
Ethnicity:
Filipina / Filipino
Body Type:
Average
Weight:
125 lbs (56.7 Kg)
Height:
5' 4" (162 cm)
Have children:
No
Want children:
Not sure
Preferred Bible Version:
New Living Translation
Religion:
Christian / Pentecostal
Willing to Relocate:
Yes
Member Since: November 18, 2013
Last logged in: Mar 05, 2017

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