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Candy

42 Years Old, Female

USER ID: 1956934

Location: Philippines

About Candy

USER ID: 1956934

Location: Philippines

I'm clear with my intentions, and I show it in my actions. My soulmate is naturally willing to match mine on his own accord. Wow! He could be the one for me. πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

I'M EXCEPTIONALLY SUPER PATIENT, ESP., IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. BUT, ONCE I'M DONE, I'M DONE! OKAY, NEXT!!!

Sad to think most men and women don't know what LOVE is. Mistaking it for just sex and lust all the time! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

Please, check out Bishop RC Blakes Jr.'s YouTube. I can assure you, that he's the best of the best Christian gentleman Author, and the most sensible and relevant LOVE, LIFE, FAMILY, and RELATIONSHIP minister. I'm so proud of him that he has impacted my life to a greater extent! All of us need healing from our past childhood traumas, wounds, brokenness, and the recurring events in our lives that may build us to become the worst or the best that we can be. Thank you. More power to you and God speed. πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

Please, do watch and have the wisdom to learn 5.... for the many many more beautiful YouTube contents of Bishop RC Blakes Jr...πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™


5 Things A Real Man Is Looking For In A Woman

How To Vet A Potential Partner

Why Can't Women Find Good Men Today?

5 Things A Woman Will Find In A Grown Man From The Beginning Of The Relationship

Signs That You've Met The One


PLEASE, READ MY LONG PROFILE WRITE-UP CAREFULLY, AND HOPE IT RESONATES WITH YOU. πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™


"A beautiful face on an empty head is like putting a gold ring on a pig's nose." Lol

If I were to rephrase this very nice quote, it's going to be...

A beautiful face on an empty head and a cold heart is like putting a diamond ring on a dull and fake person's finger!!! Lol -Chaste


What can a boyfriend or girlfriend material do to you and your life if they are just wasting time because they aren't HUSBANDS/FATHERS/WIVES/MOTHERS/MARRIAGE materials can't prove their worth and value, and never will???!!! Well, they can just be good at SEXUAL EXHIBITIONS such as HELICOPTER RIDES, CYCLONIC TORNADO CLOCKWISE-COUNTER CLOCKWISE DOMINANT ROTATIONS ON YOU LOL, and some more IMPRESSIVE AND EXPRESSIVE SEXUAL SKILLS ON YOU! LOL, But, are those only what's important that you failed to look deeper at what they can do internally, and spiritually??? Couldn't impact your soul deep within!!! Do you know where you're going to??? That both of you can't even make a strong relationship together and aren't capable to love and nurture a family???!!! BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO SETTLE DOWN WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND, YOU SHOULD KNOW PRIOR TO MARRYING THEM IF THEY HAVE THE QUALITY, CAPABILITY, and THE CAPACITY TO BE HUSBAND OR WIFE, FATHER, OR MOTHER! So, when you already are married, you are ready, prepared, and not struggling to build a family with or without children together forever!!! Not that you will marry them, only to find out later that they couldn't do their marital obligations, etc.!!! THAT'S THE WHOLE POINT OF LIFE -TO BE "DEMANDS" RESPONSIBLE, and ATTENTIVE -STABILITY UNDER PRESSURE IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, ESPECIALLY MARRIAGE! Otherwise, DIVORCE IS WAVING AT YOU FROM AFAR!!! HEHEHE...


Why am I online looking for love???!!! HEHEHE...


I am online but not looking for love! Lol, I am LOVE, and those who don't love need to look for LOVE that's ME!!! So that they become LOVE themselves!!! Otherwise, they are HATE, not LOVE!!! Lol, Surely, someone who is LOVE can find ME in real life!!! But, I've been there and done that! I'm not going to be with someone again or another one from my country who was HATE didn't love, isn't love, can't love, and won't love! Lol, That is just is!!! "So be it!" means "Amen!" Lol

I'M PURE AND SIMPLE, NOT LOOKING FOR A RICH KING! I DON'T CARE AND I DON'T MIND IF HE IS THE POOREST OF THE POOR AND HAS FALLEN INTO GREAT POVERTY!!! I WILL HELP HIM LIVE AND SURVIVE A QUALITY LIFE. I CAN LEARN TO GENUINELY FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM EVEN IF HE IS BANKRUPT AND BROKE AND DOESN'T HAVE ENOUGH OR ANY RESOURCES TO OFFER AND PROVIDE FOR ME. I WILL ABSOLUTELY HELP HIM REACH ALL HIS DREAMS COME TRUE AND BE HIS DOWN-TO-EARTH MAJOR POSITIVE SUPPORT AND HIS HEALTHIEST REAL AND TRUE EMPATH AND EMPATHETIC HELPMEET! HE WILL LEARN SO MUCH FROM ME AND BUILD HIMSELF UP TO BE A GREAT CAPABLE LIFE PARTNER TO ME AS LONG AS HE IS NOT A MAMA'S BOY, HAS A BIG HEART, AND THE SINCERE INTENTION AND WILLINGNESS TO BECOME THE BEST THAT HE CAN BE. I KNOW, I'M BETTER THAN HE WILL EVER HAVE OR HE WILL NEVER EVER GET ANY WOMAN!!! πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™


YOU SHOULD NEVER VIEW GOOD RELATIONSHIPS AND GOOD PARTNERS AS DISPOSABLES AND NEVER TAKE ROMANTIC SOULFUL LOVE AS SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MONEY CAN'T SATISFY YOU OVER TRUE HONEST LOVE AND REAL HAPPINESS WITH SOMEONE WHO GENUINELY CARES FOR YOU LIKE YOUR FAMILY OR THOSE NON-RELATED TO YOU BUT CARED SO MUCH ABOUT WHO YOU ARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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"When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned like a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things."


"When a man just views and treats a woman as a sexual tool, and because he can't see her as an equal, he can never truly harmonize with the woman. This is why he blows through one great woman after another after another, and you find him at 60, 70, 80 years old still in the club with a silk shirt bust open in a gold chain with an anklet on it trying to be a player, it's because the misogyny that was massaged into his consciousness never allowed him to view a woman as an equal partner. Therefore, he has never been able to harmonize with a woman. So, he proceeds to break the woman, break every woman he puts his hands on to get what he desires which is SEX! This kind of man typically finds his identity and his sense of self-esteem and self-worth in sexual escapades." Lol


"If you can't make strong relationships between men and women, it would also mean that you can't formulate strong marriages. Because if there is too much toxicity between men and women that they can't even get off of the relationship block, will never cross the marriage hurdle! You have to believe that marriage is deeper than having a wedding and going and reciting some vows that you never even have plans of keeping." And if you can't make strong relationships that you can't formulate strong marriages, then, you're going to have weak families, weak neighborhoods, and weak communities, leading to weak cities, broken states, broken nations, and ultimately, a weak and broken world!!! All are the products of warfare between toxic sexes of broken unconscious men and women in society!!! But you would desire a relationship that would last a lifetime with a healthy, non-toxic partner, especially if you are someone who always does your very best to bring to the table in the relationship while your partner wasn't. Otherwise, you would wish to end the relationship if it's the last thing for you to do when you were being abused all throughout your marriage with your abusive partner. Then, your decision to leave the marriage for good would mean fair enough for your own genuine peace and healing and to finally stop your prolonged agony in the hands of your abuser (as they only gave you too much mental pain and they never learned to hold themselves accountable for their being so irresponsible partner. So it's up to you how much pain you will feel in this situation!) But, then, you would probably desire to ultimately finish everything you had with this person by not holding them back in your life. Is the best decision that you can do for yourself as a favor.) For you are not just aiming at cutting ties with your abuser to claim back your own dignity, and self-love, and nurture back your self-worth to value your own life to consciously make yourself whole again. Then, it's time for you to leave the bad relationship behind and move on with your life. You're good to go with a clean and healthy conscience-a point of no return!!!


You are going to have to think deeper than the surface! Because there's a massive difference between someone who is loving you and the one who is actually capable of loving you. A person can love you, yet, they are incapable of loving you the way you deserve, the way you desire, and the way you would need to be loved!

"TOXIC MASCULINITY indoctrinates male culture to believe that love is sex and sex is love! The unfortunate reality is that the broken consciousness of the generation of women is also defining love as sex! If a man doesn't have a deeper or different definition of love than sex, he's probably more than likely, absolutely, positively NOT capable of loving a woman the way she deserves, desires and would need to be loved."


WHO I AM:


I am spiritual but not religious. I'm 100% DOMINANT and SUBMISSIVE! I live a straight-edge lifestyle. I don't like tattoos on my skin! I don't do drugs or smoke, and I don't drink alcohol. I'm a homebody, don't do the habit of going with so many friends to party2x, or nightclubbing! Although, I do have friends as I am friendly and fun. However, some of them may just befriend me for FINANCIAL-BENEFICIAL reasons that they will come to me and borrow some money, then, the next thing I know was that they're gone without a trace, not paying their big or small debts!!! Sadly!!! So embarrassing, you know!!! Hehehe... So, BE VERY CAREFUL WITH THOSE KINDS OF UNTRUSTWORTHY FILIPINO/FILIPINA FRIENDS particularly!!! Lol, But, I enjoy the outdoor fun and adventures with my family! I'm not in a rush to find a HUSBAND. I'm not desperate for a man! I come from a family in abundance, not necessarily in terms of finances, but we were quite provided for with a bit strict traditional-conservative parents with their kinda tough love parenting where they commonly held us accountable for our actions-all for good and legitimate reasons! I like my life the way it is growing up in a nice and comfortable home and having a fortunate, exciting, and fulfilling life. Someone who wants to join me on this journey we call "a simple life, " would have to be compatible with that! He should have the quality of being a HUSBAND, and FATHER already even during our time together in the relationship as BOYFRIEND and GIRLFRIEND, or even when we were still dating, I will know if he's capable or not. I just want to make sure that I won't be making any mistake in deciding to choose him to be my life partner knowing that indeed, he actually cares for a serious relationship with me and genuinely tries his best to be a good FATHER to our children, HUSBAND to me, a MARRIAGE MATERIAL, and my best friend!!! I'm so capable of loving him and only him in my life like there's no tomorrow!

I'm a professional. I have a lot of work experience in different companies before. I have a lot of driving to do, mostly running around the house making it a home sweet home, raising my 2 children and 6 dogs all by myself being a single parent to them. I'm happy as their dad and mom! Right now, I am self-employed. I'm hard-working and very independent. I'm in control of my time and I call the shots on when to open and close my office situated just within my own property.

I'm a happy person, and uninhibited. I appreciate jokes, and I like to laugh. I'm a very loyal, faithful, sincere, honest, and intentional person... to myself, my partner, and others. I'm not the jealous type or controlling. I don't care about money and success but I care so much about who you are! We all should be held accountable for our actions. I'm happy with my life the way it is and my happy soulmate will be happier to be with me.


Hey! I'm waiting for a certain kind of man, preferably a WHITE WESTERN GENTLEMAN (I hope, you understand. Please, understand this. I don't mean to discriminate skin color. It's just my preference!) The future love of my life is around my age only which means that he's between 42-45 years old only which stands 5'10" only. But, I'm not looking at his biceps, 6-pack abs, or the size of his toy! I need more than just a cute and handsome man in my life! He is someone that I can trust and depend upon that actually cares about our future together and is naturally concerned about children and family. He honestly cares and loves kids, his own family, and is quite naturally appreciative of them, not just the mother of the children he wishes to be intimately involved with, and he loves his woman's children as his own because I'm his forever!!! He is emotionally connected to himself and to me and is spiritually in tune and connected to God. He's emotionally and mentally intelligent and sensitive to me, and he will have an impact on my soul. Divinely, he is the right one for me!!! I want us to be deeply invested in each other's souls because I know that our strong souls will help us endure for the lifetime of our relationship. We'll desire to discover the depths of our soulful connection are unbreakable. We could love each other that much and would be capable of loving each other hard enough. A good woman is not interested in her man's money or status -she helps him progress in life and be the best that he can be! She wants her man his MUTUAL RESPECT, REAL COMMITMENT, COOPERATION, EXCEPTIONAL PATIENCE, CONSISTENCY, REAL EMPATHY, COMPASSION, DEPENDABILITY, UNDYING SUPPORT, KINDNESS, GENTLENESS (We can absolutely do anything together good or bad!!! Lol), we'll have PEACE, quality time, loyalty, understanding, genuine tough love, tender affection, deeply emotional and mental intimacy, strong commitment and the like. Regardless of the type of relationship, men and women should be considerate of each other's feelings. I'm definitely not impressed with how naughty, horny, or how high his sex drive is because those types of BOYS will need to grow up at some point and they're so unconsciously broken, to begin with, if they're only up for casual flings, sex, and fun especially because they will only look at immature GIRLS' physical attributes, not at GREAT HIGH-VALUE WOMEN'S INTERNAL QUALITIES, they aren't what I'm waiting on!!! I'm here until the right one shows up! You should learn to recognize what you've been doing for the last few years of your life has not worked because you were with the wrong partners or with unconsciously broken partners like you!!! Lol


When a child faces this kind of bad behavior from their parents or guardians, that kid is likely to replicate it when he grows up and the situation becomes a terrible cycle of traumatic experiences which is psychologically damaging to the development, the emotional and social skills and progress of the child will make the wounded poor thing doubt and fear and be COLD, ANGRY, DIFFICULT and DEFENSIVE at some point that he will have trust issues unresolved and will think of others who are genuinely caring and healthy individuals being the same as his abusers. Please, don't think this way. You are a human that deserves to be loved, a peaceful life, understanding, respect, appreciation, acceptance, dignity, and equality among all else.

Please, work on your self-improvement. It's very hard to be with an unconsciously broken person for the long term!

I wish you were a WESTERN GENTLEMAN who is calm (laid back kinda guy), WARM (not COLD!!!), decent, simple, emotionally available, mentally, socially, spiritually, and physically stable, and healthy (non-toxic/nonnarcissistic!!!) kind, polite, hard-working, responsible, mature, intentionally capable to love a woman like me and only me, and you're a conscious gentleman that's easy to deal with, not difficult!!! Lol, Well-respected and family-centered, husband, father, and best friend material (among all other good qualities that a real man should possess) that stands 5'10" only and around my age only, not so young and not too old that loves kids because if you like my kids, I want to be with you! But, first, you would be eager to be interested in getting to know me and to progressively into genuine friendship with me leading to a serious relationship to marriage. I hope, you are someone who doesn't have trust/mental/insecurity issues, commitment phobias, abandonment issues, mother/parents/EXES issues, WOMENIZING, SMOKING, GAMBLING, TATTOOS, ALCOHOL, or ILLEGAL DRUG ADDITION. Understand that we all have our childhood traumas and we are flawed and have fcuked up in life! Just be uninhibited, normal, and unpretentious! Be emotionally vulnerable -it's a STRENGTH!!! Please, make it a habit to keep your cool, stay calm put your guard down, and express yourself transparently!!! Real men are gentle and find vulnerability attractive, in the bedroom or otherwise, they need real women to inspire them to show their deepest feelings and emotions and to be transparent to each other so that they can feel safer with the opposite gender and vice versa. It shouldn't be hard for real men to be emotionally vulnerable even though, deep down, they want to be. Real men shouldn't be confused growing up believing that real women expect them to always show emotional control by not opening up, rather shutting down their feelings, view work as a top priority, or place a high value on the pursuit of status. If you grew up with mean parents or abusive guardians, then, that is not your fault! Know, that you are better than these kinds of diabolic creatures! But, try to make a better version of yourself and do better by never becoming the same as your parents or whoever raised you! Please, you have the power to be the opposite! Don't be like them!!! Always be a good beautiful real empath!!! Thank you.

YOU NEED SOMEBODY THAT PROVIDES FOR YOU WITH A DEEP SENSE OF SECURITY, STABILITY, AND CERTAINTY IN THE RELATIONSHIP, AT THE SAME TIME, THEY WILL BRING YOUR LIFE HAPPINESS AND UNDERSTANDING WITH LITTLE BITS OF FUN, HUMOR, EXCITEMENT, AND WONDERFUL PLEASANT SURPRISES!!! YOU NEED SOMEONE THAT INTRIGUES YOU (in positive mysterious ways) EVERY NOW AND THEN!!! GIRLS WHO ARE JUST GOOD AT MAINTAINING THEIR CURVES BUT DON'T HAVE THE MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, SPIRITUAL, SOCIAL, PHYSICAL CAPACITY AND CAPABILITY... CAN'T GIVE JUSTICE TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP IN THE LONG TERM!!! YOUR LIFE IS A CONSTANT CHANGE FULL OF MEANING, UNFORGETTABLE MEMORIES, LIFETIME FULFILMENT, AND SATISFACTION WHEN YOU ARE WITH A QUALITY AND HIGH-VALUE PARTNER WITH BEAUTY AND A BRAIN!!! LOL, YOU NEED SOMEONE WITH A BIG HEART THAT'S SOFT AND WARM ON THE INSIDE AND OUT THAT YOU CAN TRUST AND DEPEND UPON WITHOUT QUESTION! THEY'RE MATURE ENOUGH TO ARTICULATE TO YOU AND HELP YOU GROW AND ATTAIN YOUR NEEDS TO BE MET. YOU NEED AN UNCONVENTIONAL PARTNER THAT DESIRES TO HONOR YOU AND VALUE YOU. SOMEONE STABLE, PEACEFUL, AND CONSISTENT WITH WHOM YOU FEEL SAFE AND SECURE. YOU NEED SOMEONE WHO ELIMINATES ALL OF THE SUSPICIONS THAT YOU DON'T HAVE TO PRETEND AND THINK TWICE TO BE YOURSELF WHEN YOU ARE AROUND THEM BECAUSE THEY ACCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE! WITH THEM, YOU ARE FREE! THERE'S PEACE, INDEPENDENCE, JUSTICE, AND TRANSPARENCY BECAUSE YOU ARE WITH REAL HUMAN BEINGS! THERE'S NO ROOM FOR FEARS, LIES, EXPLOITATION, PRESSURE, TENSION, REJECTION, COLD SHOULDER, CONFUSION, STRUGGLE, INSECURITY, COMPETITION, BAD JUDGEMENT, AND INTIMIDATION! THERE'S NOTHING AS EMPTY AND WORST AS BEING WITH A BORING IMMATURE, BROKEN UNCONSCIOUS PARTNER AND A DEAD AND STAGNANT RELATIONSHIP!


Men can't get laid in real life that's why they play with intentional women online. The women in their land don't want them.

I will talk to decent men only!!! Real gentlemen believe in mutual respect and know best how to approach good quality women vs. women who are just freaks in the sheets and killers on the streets LOL and the very broken unconscious men will be impressed by these types of very broken unconscious women who are only good-for-nothing but the best at performing BJ's, 69's, bending over, splitting legs, SOLICITING SEXUAL PLEASURE and prostitution, and UTTER THE MOST PLEASURABLE SOUND MOANS EVER, etc., (same feathers flock together, eh???!!! MY GOODNESS!!! Lol, DO THESE BOYS AND GIRLS NOT YET MEN AND WOMEN KNOW HOW TO WASH THEIR OWN DIRTY underwear???!!! I DOUBT!! LOL, The very broken unconscious men think that the high-value women are the ones that are boring and don't know how to please them!!! HEHEHE...GENTLEMEN, VALUE YOUR LIVES AND HAVE PITY ON YOURSELVES!!! BE WITH GOOD PEACEFUL WOMEN WHO KNOW HOW TO APPRECIATE AND ACCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE. BE WITH GOOD QUALITY WOMEN THAT RESPECT, DESIRE, AND CHERISH YOU! DON'T JUST SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN YOU DESERVE! LET'S ALL HATE DIVORCE AND VALUE FAMILY AND RELATIONSHIPS! LOL

One day I'll want to settle down and have a family of my own with the man of my dreams. Who can it be now??? I hope he knew how lucky he is to have me in his life and I'll be as lucky as he is that I have him in my life to love and hold each other forever -forever because we can't just keep breaking up and be back together on and on...we both hate that sh!t! There is no game to play!


In a world full of clowns, actors, players, abusers, scammers, broken unconscious men and women, and options and opportunities, my love will always be constant and true, honest, peaceful, and stronger than any force that endures the challenges of time. A man who doesn't believe in THE SACREDNESS OF LIFE AND RESPECT FOR HUMAN LIFE (including all living things especially animals, also), and if he isn't going to hold himself accountable to be his highest self is just so stubborn to grow and learn to fully mature!!! He should just want a miserable life with a miserable partner. So be it! Regret is always in the end. I don't care and I don't mind! Lol


MORE ABOUT ME:

I'm a very serious person. I take relationships very seriously. I am an aphrodisiac lover that wants to please my man with all of me and give my love to the right one who should always return it in kind. Love is the freedom to decide to choose the right one, to sacrifice your own happiness over their happiness, and be intensely intimate with them. To choose to love the most amazing man of my life with all my heart every day. That commitment to me is very sacred deep and profound for him only.


Why do you continue to choose bad partners and poor relationships??? Never allow someone you are in a relationship with make you contemplate wandering about and confuse you! Don't let others make you feel uneasy, guessing! There's nothing certain about this person! Let them go and never take them back if they aren't accountable to change for the better!


People think that those who are soft, and real empathetic are boring! Is this the price to pay for being compassionately emotional, vulnerable, and a real empath that just loves to open up her full heart and communicates, be able to find a deep spiritual connection with humanity, yet, be labeled dull and boring??? NO WAY!!! Nothing is more boring than a narrow-brained person who always sees the negative side of things and constantly complains!!! I'm inclined to write about love, especially, and I'm speaking for myself. The truth is that I have an enduring standing rule about men. I'm the type that is exceptionally patient -it's my weakness! My patience is as broad and long as it gets. I know more than ever about my attention span and engagement are largely rare and remarkable! So, for every man I meet, you get a considerable amount of my time, only if I need to vet and discern you before I disqualify and eliminate you irrevocably from my list! Within the considerable amount of time, I'm giving you, you can gauge if you have hope or you don't. But definitely, I'm not the kind of woman that flirts with so many men! It's too taxing-toxic and unnecessary!!! I have my life ahead of me, and a family, and children to serve! So, it's not okay for me to have multiple flings!!! Besides, I don't like a man who doesn't know what he wants from his life because I'm pretty set in my ways. There's no need to change anything about me as I'm already always up for righteousness and if I'm with a man who's worth it, then, I can only be the best that I can be to him millionfold!!! So, it's either you love me hard or you leave me alone!

If you knew from the start that you're too incapable to love a strong woman like me, who is GOD-fearing; A GIVER, CLEAN INSIDE AND OUT, EMOTIONALLY, SPIRITUALLY, MENTALLY, SOCIALLY, CONNECTED, and PHYSICALLY ACTIVE and SEXUAL POTENT ALPHA WOMAN with CALMNESS and CONTROL hehe... I'm so FUN to be with in person, very EXCITING, STIMULATING, PENETRATING, ADDICTIVE LOL, EXHAUSTING, OVERWHELMING, ELECTRIFYING, and -SARCASTIC AT SOME POINT!!! HEHEHE... You'll love being with me because I'm a YOUTHFUL THINKER, STRESS-FREE LOVER, AND COMPANION. I'm very NICE, NAUGHTY sometimes, DIRTY LOL, but, PEACEFUL, HAPPY, WARM, CALM, ADAPTABLE, EASY TO DEAL WITH BUT DON'T COME EASY, DECISIVE, ACTIVE, SUPPORTIVE, HUMBLE, MEEK, uninhibited, unconventional, fair, consistent, independent, confident, responsible, hard-working, driven, ambitious but contented with the simple little things in life, nurturing, honest, decent, kind, selfless, reliant and reliable, accountable, smart, intelligent, multi-talented, family-centered, goal-oriented, organized, compassionate, open-minded, transparent, SENSUAL, passionate, affectionate, real-empathetic, exceptionally patient, very loving, caring, gentle, tender, sweet and friendly; thoughtful, honest, sincere, faithful, sensitive, attentive, POSITIVE, understanding, forgiving..., and most of all, EMPOWERED enough to know that I don't need a man to function, but, I know, I'm a good, peaceful, stable partner, mother and wife material, best friend -to name a few of those qualities...then, PLEASE, DON'T COME AROUND!!! I don't need anyone's attention just to get their approval and validation! I know who I am and I know my worth and value! I've been there, and done that! I've been hurt so many times loving the MOST BROKEN-UNCONSCIOUS WRONG PERSON AT THE WRONG TIME! Even if I tried to exceptionally please somebody with all the goodness in me, it's a red flag how they never learned to become better, instead, they only got worst! I thought I'd never survive such PAINFULNESS in me for loving the most toxic partner and relationship I ever had. But, I'm well enough to know what I deserve and what I don't! However, within the unlimited amount of time, I'm giving you, I will try to listen to your views! I will see if you're eager enough to be someone adequate for me as we all know, things are just good in the beginning!!! So, don't impress me with your fake plasticity! Be unpretentious and show me what you got! I will know your intention and if your agenda is acceptable or not! But, if from the start you will only make me feel that you're having a hard time loving me, then, that's a red flag from you which is a major deal-breaker for me! Don't you ever think I will be sorry! Or you thought I'm not going to let you know exactly what I deserve! In fact, if you want to be with me, you should know it way ahead of you! I don't care about your age, money, or success, as long as you have the stand and sense of responsibility to know what you want to compare to an old man without direction in life.

I don't need a man for a meal ticket! I'm capable of taking good care of myself and my children. Your role in my life is just to be a capable man to love me and only me!!! But the question is... CAN YOU DO IT??? Because if you can't, there's no need to engage!!! There's not enough time to learn everything through trial and error! But, there are too many lessons in life, love, and relationship to learning the hard way!!! Life lessons are gained through real-world experience! Yes, I know this! That's probably the reason, why others don't believe in LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS! But, I don't care and I don't mind what they believe in. What's important is that I personally am taking into consideration to believe in LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS. Imagine how many needless frustrations you could avoid if you just learned from your mistakes and life lessons and move on with someone who is so right for you because you are in tune with one another spiritually, mentally, emotionally, socially, and physically. It takes humility and a lot of patience to learn to know someone better and appreciate them for the goodness that they are which impacted your life that much! But, if you can get into the habit of vetting and discerning someone to be your future soulmate, then, you can save yourself time and collateral damage from getting disappointments if they are in sync with your desires and requirements. BUT, ONCE I'M DONE, I'M DONE.


It takes a responsible man to be committed to one woman, raises his children, and protect his own family.


GENTLEMEN, have a handle on who you are and what you are worth. When to know you are broken and one proof of your brokenness is that you have the tendency to attempt to mend (the YOU who were being violated and abused by the CRAZY EX that broke you.) So, if your CRAZY EX broke you, you seek out another toxic partner to fix you and the sad reality is that because you are broken, your perspective and perception are signaling you to engage in the same toxicity that many times, you are looking at another toxic partner to fix what the previous toxic partner did to you but you are looking at some kind of negative mate with the same negative profile. You will end up a loser and miserable man over and over again. HISTORY REPEATS ITSELF. I JUST WONDER WHY IT SEEMS YOU LOVE BEING ABUSED FROM ONE BAD PARTNER TO ANOTHER REPEATEDLY!


I have learned that men and women don't always speak the same way, and when you add a cultural background difference (that can't be overlooked!) it can be even harder to understand. But if he is really serious about trying to contact me, then, he will find a way to get connected.

FALLING IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ON A DATING SITE THAT'S A COMPLETE STRANGER TO YOU IS VERY POSSIBLE WHEN YOU ARE SPIRITUALLY CONNECTED TO EACH OTHER, AND FALLING HARD IN LOVE WITH THEM IN PERSON THE MOMENT YOU MEET IS VERY POSSIBLE ALSO. WHICHEVER WAY, I WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH A RESPONSIBLE MAN ONLINE AND THEN FALL HARD IN LOVE WITH HIM IN PERSON WHEN WE MEET. THE ONLY IMPOSSIBLE IS FOR HIM NOT TO FALL HARDER IN LOVE WITH ME WHEN HE MEETS ME IN PERSON BECAUSE HE WILL DEFINITELY BE KNOCKED HIMSELF OFF HIS FEET AND ENDS UP FALLING HARDEST IN LOVE WITH ME!!! LOL

BOYFRIENDS ARE VERY EASY TO FIND ANYWHERE!!! I CAN HAVE AS MANY OF THEM IN AN INSTANT IF I WANT TO!!!! IT'S ALL IN MY HANDS!!! COLLECT AND SELECT. QUANTITY OVER QUALITY!!! LOL, BUT, I DON'T WANT QUANTITY!!!! I WANT QUALITY!!! It's not about the money. It's not how many women/men you can have. A real man has self-control and proper temperament. He doesn't sleep with all those women. You got to do more and go home than just have sex with a wife -you will make love to her in a way that is beyond the physical lust. Though men are made to be verified and have to grow up and be real men stability under pressure! BUT, WHO CAN FIND A FAITHFUL, RESPONSIBLE MAN THAT'S A HUSBAND, FATHER, AND BEST FRIEND?????????????????????????????????!!! And he who finds a virtuous woman finds a good thing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A MAN WHO GETS USED TO DEALING WITH IMMATURE AND A POOR QUALITY OF WOMEN IS OBVIOUSLY A BROKEN UNCONSCIOUS MAN AND AN IDI*T!!! HEHEHE... MY FUTURE SOULMATE IS THE MOST HANDSOME CUTIE IN THE UNIVERSE WITH A GOOD CHARACTER AND A GREAT SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY/KING-CONSCIOUS WESTERN GENTLEMAN AROUND MY AGE ONLY (not too young and not too old!!! LOL) WHO STANDS 5'10" ONLY. BUT, I DON'T REALLY CARE HOW OLD HE IS. I WOULDN'T CARE HOW MALE, HOW SEXUAL, OR HOW VERIL HE IS AS A MALE. IF HE IS NOT RESPONSIBLE, HE'S NOT A MAN!!! LITTLE TO DO WITH AGE AND EVERYTHING TO DO WITH CHARACTER AND RESPONSIBILITY! IF YOU'RE SLEEPING WITH MULTIPLE WOMEN, YOU'RE NOT A MAN BUT A BOY/KID AND ARE VERY IRRESPONSIBLE!!! I THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!


Godsend me a man that matches my purpose. I'm prepared for my purpose and I pray that God raises up a man to build up, harmonize and relate to my future. I believe with all of my heart that God will give me a complete revelation of this and He will deliver. He will cleanse my heart, mind, body, and spirit of all these toxic desires. I will no longer be my own worst enemy when it comes down to men. He will help me appreciate and recognize a man that's husband and father material. I will be on the level of the person I desire and I will be attractive to the soulmate that God chooses for me. I'm faithful and very patient. Before it's too late, my man will come. He will come home to me... come home to my heart forever.



How may we learn the heart of a person???

Answer: "Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth does speak."



"Behind every great man is a great woman."

Sometimes, a great woman (not an immature girl who is not yet a woman Lol) is in front of him does the work, and gives him the credit for it. Great men can be... depending on the kind of woman they are with. Not all women can do the same effect on every man. But, a virtuous woman does a big difference to impact her man's life beyond the necessary fulfillment and satisfaction that he deserves and desires.



GENTLEMEN!!!

You all admit it or not, you need help from a good woman, not a bad woman!!! A grown masculine man knows what a good woman brings to his life and he recognizes her value and what God puts in her that makes her man better as she brings a wide change in her feelings of him with her politeness, gratitude, purity that brought the soul of happiness in his life as if he's got a new life full of love and pure soul. WOW! that's all he could ever need from the kind of woman. You men need this type of woman's presence, her energy, and essence in your life to be your perfect fit helpmeet.

If you are wise, you should be dating for data! If you have the mind and heart to pursue a real relationship that would make for marriage, you must date for data. You gather relevant information about whom you are dating! Learn well about this person, then, vet and discern them if they have all it takes to match up with your lifestyle together and be equally yoked to join with the same with each other for a long time. Rather than consuming your life experiencing nonsense, doing what others are doing, wasting time playing games, and doing casual fling and fun fooling around is not worth it!

It's cool to have some life experiences, but at least, you should make the most out of it!!! You can't just experience being single and free when you are dealing with toxic people that you've been in relationships with. This is why in many cases, you have chosen the wrong woman multiple times, you shouldn't be dating for sexual encounters!!! A real relationship is a mutual exchange of interest sacrifice, respect, and growth. Have the keen sense within you to be consciously aware of your purpose and why you are dating a particular person. At least, that's not your main goal to be more sexual with a temporary partner than deciding to grow an honorable life with a good confidant companion! Always be honest and live with your true authentic self. Don't be pretentious and act like a fraud or an impostor! Show your truth in an acceptable manner and you will attract your most potential partner in God's time. Employ in you that deep spiritual capacity to connect with someone whose spirit desires to be with you. Your spirit will always tell you the truth about how you feel about a potential partner and that they're the right one for you. Be intentional, friendly, transparent, warm, kind, polite, and develop a healthy productive relationship with a potential partner and understand your purpose so you can avoid so many failed relationships. The reason why you may be engaging with someone in a long term relationship but can't decide to marry them is that you knew, they're not the one for you simply because, you haven't found the one with whom your spirit is calling for and that right person's spirit is also calling for you to match with theirs!!! That! When you marry your soulmate, it's less likely you will deal with divorce in the future!!! Be reminded that all of the failed relationships you've had in the past, were dysfunctional and involved people who have so turned you on sexually, made you the BIGGEST LOSER, so empty, cold and broken!!! But beyond that, you knew you were with the wrong ones because they didn't even bother to uplift you to your highest self or put value and contribute much to your deep emotional, mental, and especially spiritual well-being when you were still together!!! There was nothing to improve in the relationships!!!

Aren't you tired and fed up with all these FOOLISH HEARTS and silly games that you're playing with your fellow flock mates??? Then, it's amazingly so unreasonable of you if you still want to continue this life cycle with so many potential wrong ones in your future degenerating life!!! Lol, You Only Live Once!!! FIND ME!!! I'm THE RIGHT ONE for you and I hope you're the right one for me too!!! Then, we shall live happily ever after in paradise preferably, in the Garden Of Eden... before it's too late!!! HEHEHE... PEACE!!!


SOME MORE ABOUT ME:
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You know, I'm good. I know who I am. I know what I want. I know what I'm here for. I know what my vision is. I know where I'm going. I know what my goals are. I would love to have somebody in my life but if that never happens, it's not the end of the world for me. I'm content with what God is putting me as an individual. But, my soulmate knows that he needs me in his life. He will desire to be around me and he'll break down walls to spend time just being with me. He will cut off all other things just to be with me. He will have to love me internally, especially spiritually -in my mind, personality, and character. I believe that my soulmate will pursue me as hard as I pursue him on a lifelong journey. It's an equal investment as it pertains to energies, sharing, empowerment, progress, purpose, tough love, no room for jealousy, insecurity, bad pride, and competition, but, sacrifices, interest, and nurturance. Both of us will never be able to get rid of each other and never let go because we are recognizing something special about each individual that connects us from our missing parts emotionally intellectually, and spiritually, and we aren't complete without the other. We get one another. WE ARE SOULMATES!!!


Look beyond sexuality but the mentality and spirituality of the individual and develop internal connections. Great sex is MENTAL, and within the context of marriage is not based on physicality! It is having a deep connection with a person mentally and spiritually!!! Always remember that!!! It's always about mental stimulation and penetration and spiritual connection that can fulfill your desires with a soulmate. So, stop messing around with prostitutes and sex workers!!! You will just consume each other physically and then, you will get bored and keep looking for the same meat! You will never find a good sense of direction in life and any future to uphold and honor yourself and your family's legacy!!! Lol


A man who is serious and in love with his woman; her woman doesn't have to beg him to come around. He is going to want to be around the woman he is serious about all of the time. He's gonna wanna be around her. Because nothing in the world will stop a man from being with his woman. He is not going to walk away, push her away, put her on hold, or delay her to be in his life. She is his hottest and rarest commodity. She is exceptionally patient, faithful, loyal, and honest to him with all her heart and he loves her, values her, and honors her as his woman. And because he values and really is serious about her, he will not continue to sabotage the relationship with stupid actions. Any man that continues to sabotage the relationship by being foolish around his woman doesn't really value her. He probably didn't even truly love her. Any man who keeps doing the things when he knows it will hurt his woman; if he has to constantly say "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, " is either too stupid to learn or just didn't care to change. Otherwise, he will never want to offend her, nor hurt her self-worth. When a man values his woman, he's honest about his life to the point of risking hurting himself being so honest with her because he truly values her and he doesn't want to deceive her from his past and his present life as he never wants to appear as an impostor to the woman that he truly loves and values about. One of the solid pieces of proof he values his woman is that he tells her all his secrets!!! He will have no secrets from his woman, will not give her false hopes, promises, or confusion!!! He is always available and present for her and prioritizes her with his quality time and sincere affection and pays attention to her!!! If a man isn't and can't be available and present for her, he isn't serious and never will!!! If he is serious about her and about marriage to her, he has the mindset that the two of them shall become each other's best friends for life. He will find the greatest friendship in her as his number one and only confidant and vice versa. They will be transparent to each other no matter what happens and he values her that he wants to make their relationship exclusive and public! He's going to want to make her his wife for life, not a temporary girlfriend!!! He will always have a conversation about intimacy and desires to get intimate with her over manipulation or force. He will always approach a sexual encounter with her in a respectful manner and place because sex should be done with a sacred intention and he will want to constantly assure her to certainly feel 100% comfortable making love with him in the bedroom. He takes good care of her, seeks wisdom and understanding to protect her, and wants to know what makes her happy. He will do whatever it takes to make her happy as much as she takes good care of him and makes sure he is a very happy man!!! He will have the heart that sacrifices because he loves, values, and looks up to her with the highest regard as much as she does for him that they will be gentle and exceptionally patient with each other. He will make her his wife to build a future together, and love each other without reservation. Otherwise, he will keep playing the games, and will never be done playing hard!!!

It's amazing how men are locked down with women who can't excite them with a conversation! If I don't have that funny deep thoughts and soulful connection with my partner that I feel can truly be mutually cultivated in the relationship I desire it to be, then, I'd rather be alone!


A lot of men are running behind the looks of a woman and all of the stuff she's portraying to them superficially! If you only stopped and just pay attention to her energy that has you disrupted, but, because you've been conditioned to the toxicity of the world and society, not to look at the good internal qualities of a woman, many times you are passing over the woman that has the full capacity to be everything that you need to really make your life healthy, whole, and peaceful. And you're just settling for the one you want, not the one you need.

You can pay nobody to be a companion to you. You may pay a woman to have sex, or a maid to do all the things for you. However, paying may get the task accomplished, but, it doesn't fulfill your need to be a hero in the eyes of a particular woman that does all the things because of the love she has for you. It's a big difference when a woman is having sex with you and your needs are being met because that woman actually cares, loves, and honors you. You can't compare the sex of a prostitute with that of a sweet loving wife.


First Questions:

Why is it that most men have only responded to women who awakened their flesh and not what their very tight spiritual connection (from God) dictates that "this is the right woman for them and that therefore, they should heed the worthiness of the signs that this is really it --the woman in front of their eyes is it, in fact, The One???!!!
So, stop looking elsewhere!!! Lol, We shouldn't be putting so much emphasis on the heart alone if you feel something about the person superficially, because the heart is tortuous and our feelings can certainly fool us unnoticed, but the SPIRITUAL should never be ignored!

Why do you keep going in finding women at the strip club and you wonder why you keep getting your money was taken and you're heartbroken???????

Don't you know that the real King-conscious men and Queen-conscious women have all it takes and are the best ones at the SEX and QUALITY LOVEMAKING, not the men/women engaging in women/men in the strip clubs???!!!

Have you ever done a critical and careful examination of a potential partner if you really genuinely looking for one???????

Why would you be involved SEXUALLY with somebody that you don't even know or with whom you're not so sure of taking the risk to compromise your own happiness over this person by giving up your freedom and eligibility just to be with this person that they can't even bring peace and stability to your life??? Why would you be in the middle of the bed with somebody doing all this stuff and you don't even know them and you wondered why your bank accounts are drained!!!!!! Lol, I know that hurts and that's just the truth!!!

You thought you kept falling in love so many times with all the wrong partners for all the wrong reasons! Think about it. I hope, next time, you're not going to run with the smell of the perfume, the shape of the body or the tone of the voice, the women that you kept seeing on the magazine covers, or the finest of the hips, or else, you'll get lost in space and will never ever find any clear direction in life! I am open to giving an opportunity to welcome any man proving his necessary and important qualities to me. I'm in the process of determining if someone is actually suitable for me before I could go too far. I kept vigil and praying for the wisdom of God for the right man for me to come home and be my permanent resident, and he will look not at the outside appearance of other women, but deep beneath my heart because he knows that I'm authentic, genuinely honest, safe, and a good thing. I'm not gonna leave processing things at the shallow, childish immature level of physical and sexual appeal to entice me into finding the one for me because it will only keep me from getting the same result which is a whole lot of unwanted sex with the wrong ones and there would be no real relationships to achieve and no future to look forward to. There is more to a person than what meets the eye. True! I'm paying attention to my emotional comfort and my man will be my safe emotional sanctuary also. It is indeed about how a person makes us feel that matters the most because the right one should be living their lives in a way that puts us at ease with them. I hope, I have all these qualities and my man will be able to recognize them! Lol

I am reflective. I always do my best to choose the path of righteousness. I am a peacemaker and avoid drama and conflict. At the same time, I am a strong feminine personality; the fearless PUMA in me emerges when the circumstance demands it! Lol

I love this line from a recent movie, "We must care for people that are weaker and kinder than us." I live my life that way. Nothing is about me; everything is about you.

My teeth and nails are flailing around and I'm hissing like a cat and I grind and move my body like a snake on you!!! Want that big fat ass to WIGGLE2x!!! Hehe...You'll absolutely love my quirkiness! I'm definitely, not a prude!!! A lot of men came to me and told me that I scare them and I'm a rare find showing a lot of energy enthusiasm and force manifestations, that, I write excellently, and I should pursue a career in writing. Lol, They were suggesting that I should write about my exploits as a Filipina dating Filipino men. They were telling me that they can understand why some men are intimidated by me as according to them, it's (because of your huge intellect and voluptuous body!) Hehe... Oh, please, don't. I am just a simple and ordinary woman who desires my kind gentleman (just one) to love me extravagantly and passionately and only me. I want to fall in love with my man and serve him at my best the way he has never been loved before by any unworthy woman! Lol

My man is honoring me so much that submission will be my natural response to him. I will be the one to lift him up to his highest self aiming to achieve his full potential and be very proud I'm his woman and no matter what, he's got my back. This old world will beat you down over and over but when my man comes home to me, I know, I'm the only one that can satisfy and fulfill all his needs and desires as nobody else can and he knows that I actually mean it. He's my everything and won't ask for more!

I have been philosophical and thoughtful throughout my life and have a definite opinion about things I've studied (including religion, emotions, sex, love and relationships, humanity, family, business and home management, and politics.) But I refuse to be argumentative. An intact relationship is more important than winning a point in an argument. Still, I love an open dialog about the deeper things in life with people who are emotionally and mentally mature and can debate without becoming overly sensitive.

I love my life here in the Philippines. Simple living but happy and comfortable. You should have come here to me and maybe you would have stayed for good! Lol, There are many men lusting after me but I honestly don't have high standards for what I am after. There's not much to ask, really!!! But, I obviously do not accept Filipino men, because I've been there, and done that! I can see, that many are Red Horse drinkers (I shouldn't have mentioned Red Horse as it's not paying me to endorse their own product brand!!! Lol) with an eye for other women! I prefer my man to be a non-smoker, non-alcoholic, non-illegal drug user, non-gambler, no tattoos, have a very clean body type inside and out, and doesn't come from a broken family (please, respect this!) Thank you!

Men tend to fall in love with me very quickly. But, there's more to a relationship than just sex! If you get my drift, I prefer my men to be mature and I'm not into young boys and kids, only if they're capable enough to sustain me!!! Lol, that's the way I am.

The course of true love is a winding road with many thorns and spikes along the way. Oh, if only life was simple! Love is a difficult thing and doesn't just fall from the sky, though I wish it did! It has to be fought for. I guess I'm not ready to settle down. I will when I find the right one, which is a monumental task! Lol, Besides, I am not the one who is going to chase anyone!!! Real men should be the ones chasing and the pursuers of great women!!!


I'm a woman who does a lot with her family. I only desire to be with a man (regardless of his status in life), who is truly capable of loving a woman like me and only me for a long time in all phases of our life together. My man loves life as much as I do enjoy simple things. To you the man of my dreams and the only one I desire, you are the Love of My Life. Please, have faith. I am suitable and complementary to you as you are to me, not only by sexual attraction but by opening our hearts for you and me to come in and be able to let our souls unite as one as our two hearts intentionally welcomed each other in that sacred private space being our emotional sanctuary of soulful love that we are bound to share together exclusively. We can have it all -all the love that's purely soulful, extremely passionately intense, and 'nen, everything will run smoothly. You being my man that's truly capable of loving me and only me, I want nothing but you at your best, YOU ARE LOVE! I want you. I need you to want me. I want us together every day, every single time! Wrapping ourselves around each other, holding closer, in a way no human could. We only need each other to quench the thirst of love and lust combined and combust. We'll enjoy each other too much, engaging in total deeper intimate physical contact to go on for hours and hours, Unltd. time non-stop! Mmmm...you have to be that man who is exceptionally patient with me. The one I only desire to be with all my life. No one else comes close.


I've learned a lot of lessons in life. One of the things is, that you got to have real fun and happiness in life because you deserve to enjoy and be happy! You may be happy being alone but it could mean more fun as you've never been happier when you are with the right SIGNIFICANT OTHER who is truly capable of loving you and only you for who you are -YOU who is also very capable of loving them and only them for who they are. The feelings are mutual. If you should really be with someone, you got to focus on real connections and with whom you connect deeply. Someone who has a mutual desire with you that goes beyond just physical attraction and is the best version of yourselves, not just who you want. Clearly, a lot of us may have gotten someone we just wanted and we still ended up miserable and in a dead-end relationship. Obviously, some of us have been there and done that wherein who we wanted wasn't really who we needed and didn't have a real deep connection with. That's what makes relationships in constant turmoil! I want to stress that practically speaking, relationships that lack emotional intimacy depict feelings of isolation, disconnection, and a lack of emotional safety (plus a lack of initiation to effectively communicate and emotional, personal, spiritual, and mental maturity.) Even though you have time spent together physically when there's no real emotional connection or understanding between you, the effects of a lack of intimacy are incontrovertibly true consequential leading to so few too many disappointments and failed relationships that sometimes can be deemed irreparable, null and void anyhow.


I'm just wishing a man had figured it out! Then, he can come to me and stay with me so that we can be together for good. I want him to have the best of everything and do everything possible to make him happy. He is my everything and he means more than he ever knows to me and so also is his health. I love him so much. I'll take good care of him always.

I'm a hopeful romantic and I visualize myself with a certain person in the future leading a happier life together forever.

β€œBeauty without wit offers love nothing but the material enjoyment of its physical charms, whilst witty ugliness captivates by the charms of the mind, and at last fulfills all the desires of the man it has captivated...

Let anyone ask a beautiful woman without wit whether she would be willing to exchange a small portion of her beauty for a sufficient dose of wit. If she speaks the truth, she will say, "No, I am satisfied to be as I am." But why is she satisfied? Because she is not aware of her own deficiency. Let an ugly but witty woman be asked if she would change her wit against beauty, and she will not hesitate in saying no. Why? Because, knowing the value of her wit, she is well aware that it is sufficient by itself to make her a queen in any society.”


I'm very careful what I wished for. I'm confidently prepared and ready to move on with my life with the right person. It's an irrevocable decision. I'm not here for games. I'm too old for that shit. My goal with a man in my life is to be with him for the rest of our lives and just love the f*ck out of my one and the only apple of my eyes. So, he knows it to the core of his soul that I will love him for as long as I live. I am very open about my sexuality. I would never trade honest soulful love, deep intimacy, and a real strong spiritual connection with the love of my life over money and material things. I'm not a gold digger, never will! I have so many real golds at home!!! I don't care about money and success. I care about who he is being honest and kind, family-centered, and who loves and fears the Lord. I want to be with someone who is assured of himself and mature enough to tackle life's adversities, who will fight for me and accept me for who I am (with all his heart), and accepts my children, and us as his own family. He will want my kids because if he's serious about me and is worthy of my love, I'll desire to be with him for the rest of my life. I am not going to walk away from him --that would be the last thing I would consider doing. I just want his honesty that he will be learned to love me and be capable to love me and only me. I want to believe he's real. SEEING him standing in front of my eyes in person is BELIEVING that he's genuinely authentically interested and has the word of honor.

Thank you for your interest. I have found the love of my life. I'm not looking for anyone anymore. I finally found someone very special to me that I really see a good future to build for the rest of our lives. It's not a question of requited or unrequited love. When you are in love, it's not 50/50 but you will selflessly give your very best to each other 100%! I'm happier and I'm sure, he is also. Very much! I'm so serious about this person and care so much about him and his family. He is adequate for me and his happiness means the world to me. I support him all the way to the best of my ability, no matter what happens and I plan on him being my forever, period! I just came on here now and then to read the profiles. It's like cheating with none of the guilt. I'm sorry, GENTLEMEN, I'm not your woman! Lol, I want to be with a man who knows how to take good care of a good woman whose purpose is to bring her man and amplify his life with peace, major support system, positivity, inspiration, gentleness, kindness, compassion, empathy, excitement, humility, meekness, honesty, faithfulness, transparency, fulfillment, stability, deeper connection, understanding and sensitivity, security, spiritual uplift, moral fiber, happiness, patience, soulful love, honor, trust, respect, consistency, independence, understanding, pride in his family legacy, balance in his life and the like. β€œWhatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby... If you give her a house, she'll give you a home." He will give me and I will give him more, everything. He will come home to me, come home to my heart on his own accord when he's serious and ready as I patiently wait.


I am very much in a place in my life where casual fun is not exciting to me. What's exciting to me is actually creating something more meaningful like a real deeper connection with someone to look forward to in more relevant right situations, VULNERABILITY under pressure, open communication, mutually respectful and respecting, trusting, faithful, TOUGH LOVE, extremely very deep intensely sensual, passionately intimate, super close and arousing, nurturing, permanently promising, secure, and stable, happy-positive long term relationship to build with where the two of us are putting our best foot forward, and willing to sacrifice, to navigate, explore and share our transparent selfless selves exclusively with one another. No inhibitions, violence, competition, superiority-inferiority complex, abuse of power, manipulations, and mind-games, please. I'm not sitting around or lying on my back to wait for any man to figure it out! I'm gone! I don't need anyone to decide for me when they're gonna be in a serious committed relationship with me as we will be getting to know each other if we both desire to. I don't even know whoever comes into my life that well enough to necessarily oblige myself to know that person right now. But, if anyone walking in my life is just pretending, experimenting, and only wanting some life experiences, not even open to the prospect of something more to be with me being the ultimately amazing WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE that I think I am, then, I need to redirect my energy somewhere else. I'm not going to waste my time, feelings, and thoughts being consumed by the wrong person in a situation that goes nowhere. I'm more advanced, skillful, and well-experienced, very well put together. If he is in love and walks in love with me, he will bring me clarity and peace, not going to confuse me, and will encourage me to choose to step forward in bringing the best version of each other together for keep.


FOLLOW UP QUESTIONS:


What are your goals and end games with women?

Why are you dating? What is your purpose???

Why are you so interested in dating ME?

Do you have any children or major responsibilities?

Are you currently in a relationship? or

Are you still romantically involved with your EX?

Are you still in love with your EX?

Is there a potential chance that you get back with your EX and you are just looking for a rebound to temporarily experiment with intentional people who just want to love and be loved and you planned to have the cruelest intention to play with their feelings and will disappear next misleading them to rely on you for nothing???

How involved are you with your family?

What are you looking for in a relationship and how do you feel about it?

How long has it been since your last relationship?

Do you feel like you're ready to start a new one?

Are you actually ready for a serious relationship and moving forward, not backward? Or do you just plan to come very strong and will suddenly disappear out of nowhere?

What are your standards and morals of life and love, your beliefs, and interests especially when it comes to relationships?

Are you someone any woman wished for to be her man or just good-for-nothing and is only looking for the same in a low-quality girl who is not yet a full-bloomed woman and is also being a good-for-nothing like you?

How well are you with communication?

Are you well in listening and expressing yourself?

Are you having a hard time processing things like your emotions or thoughts?

What is something that you are working on to be the best version of yourself?

How serious are you about becoming a better person and ultimately a better partner?

What issues that good women don't see right now that you are working on?

Are you an angry person who easily gets disappointed and frustrated?

Are you disciplined enough to keep your frustrations on a healthy level?

Are you the jealous type?

Are you dealing with something that's really serious like major depression, anxiety, or insanity? If yes, it's okay, we all have to go through life's challenges. Live and survive.

What do you think is a good man?
What do you think is a good woman?

What can't you live without?

What are your fear factors?

What are you afraid to lose?


DON'T JUST SHUT UP WHEN YOU'RE NOT OKAY. HAVE THE COURAGE TO OPEN UP AND TELL SOMEBODY THAT YOU'RE HAVING TROUBLE, AND SEEK HELP. SOMEONE WILL GENUINELY CARE ABOUT YOU AND THAT IS ME! REMEMBER! YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE BUT EVERYTHING TO GAIN! THANK YOU.

Additional Information

Prefers to Meet Age:
39 to 45 (Strict age limits: no)
Marital Status:
Separated
Education:
Bachelors degree
Ethnicity:
Filipina / Filipino
Body Type:
Average
Weight:
130 lbs (59 Kg)
Height:
5' 1" (155 cm)
Have children:
Yes - at home full-time
Want children:
Yes
Preferred Bible Version:
Filipino or Filipino Dialect
Religion:
Spiritual but not religious / Other
Willing to Relocate:
No
Member Since: October 21, 2021
Last logged in: Jun 27, 2022

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