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56 Years Old, Male

USER ID: 1933509

Location: Centerburg, Ohio, United States

About Benjamin

USER ID: 1933509

Location: Centerburg, Ohio, United States

Going through an unwanted devorce. A shock after 39 years.

My soon to be "X" is not being reasonable and has cost me another $2, 080.00 to give her a written proposal to solve her claimed problem only to be declined.

Her counter offer to settle only displays her lies.

When this is over and I'm on my feet financially again, I will get an upgrade here so we can chat.

I don't know how long it may be though. Please pray for me. Thank you and thank you for your patience.

Have patience. If you have received a wink from me, know I'm interested in you. If you've received multiple winks, know I'm really interested in meeting you someday to really get to know you. I will receive your winks in kind but just know I cannot text or take calls until I upgrade my account. Read below to see more about what is happening in my life. Thank you.

I have not upgraded yet, so I cannot read or reply to messages. Thank you anyway, if you tried.

Please note: Although I'm not Catholic, I definately am a Christian. It is He whom has brought me through this past year of separation and will bring me through the Court issues and Divorce finalization.

It's been a real let down. I would like to find someone genuine and won't chase the almighty dollar.

Money is important but merely a tool. It is the loves of our live's that will last. Family and friendships. My next wife will be granted by the good Lord. May we be a blessing to each other.

Once again, I'm sorry for the delay in response to your inquiries. I'm not a premium member yet. Quite expensive for now. My wife's devorce filing to me cost me $1, 700.00 to respond, to get things started. A single parent myself. (My children are young adults though.) We are close. I'm trying to keep what's left of my family together. My In-Law's support my position.

Not sure when money won't be an issue yet. I do see you folks and am considering when I can get back to you. It would be so nice to chat. We'll see... Thank you for your kind understanding.

If you winked at me, know I saw it. Cannot upgrade while financing my devorce. (It isn't my desire to devorce. Wife ran off with another man. 😪)

I wish I could reply to you but I'm going to have to wait until my devorce is finalized and the expense is behind me. The process has only just begun. It is the responsible way to proceed though.

36 years married, thrown away. (39 years together, total.) So sad.

Additional Information

Prefers to Meet Age:
30 to 55 (Strict age limits: no)
Marital Status:
High School Graduate or Some College
Caucasian (white)
Body Type:
5' 7" (170 cm)
Have children:
Want children:
Not sure
Preferred Bible Version:
King James
Willing to Relocate:
Member Since: September 25, 2021
Last logged in: Jan 27, 2022

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