Location: Marion, Illinois, United States
Just because I'm divorced doesn't mean I'm for divorce, it takes two to stay married. I am biblically justified in remarrying. I have waited 4 years without dating to see if reconciliation was possible, but I think I've seen enough that God has released me. It's better for both to be committed to the marriage. When you argue, you should both understand you aren't fighting each other, you're fighting Satan that is trying to destroy your family, and he's really good at his job. If both of you realize that, you can make it through problems that arise. If only one of you realize that, it will be difficult. The only good thing that came from the divorce was it immediately brought me closer to God and I'm not sure anything else could have done that except the horrible, horrible experience of losing a marriage I expected to be forever.
I read the bible daily and am active in my church. I am on the video team and take turns leading a bible study group. I need a wife that has an interest and heart in leading others to Christ and lives by example. We are not the example, Christ our Lord is. However, we cannot cause others to stumble. I don't believe we should participate in premarital sex, so that should separate me from about 95% of the guys on here.
All 3 of my kids are 18 or older and I don't have debt. I like nice things, but I Always get great deals when buying them. I shop wisely and don't waste money.