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25 Years Old, Male

About Tom

USER ID: 1220365

Location: United Kingdom

Hey and salamat for visiting my profile - my tagalog is really bad but i'm proud i know a little atleast :P

I was looking at other profiles to get an idea what i should write here and most people don't put much but i'm totally serious about this so I will put as much effort into writing this as i can.

firstly, I joined this website after being recommended by a youtube vlogger i watch regularly about his journey in the Philippines. its a long story but i've been pretty miserable living in the UK with this society.. watching videos was my escape and the more I watched, the more i fell inlove with the Philippines.. the culture, the food (except balot.. that scares me!) and the simple way of life.

I grew up in the south of England and while it may look great from the outside, the country is in turmoil. I'm 25 years old and i've never felt true love, people just want to play games. they want money, they want sex, flirty flirt.. thats not what love is about, atleast to me. something sacred is taken as a joke now and that really does hurt my soul, knowing if I don't get out of here im foreveralone

my hobbies/interests: I love football and followed it since an early age. I workout alot although i hate gyms, i just feel its important to stay healthy. i play many online games in my spare time also but if i lived in more of a countryside i'd love to explore nature. my main passion in life is art so that would be my dream job.

I wanna be clear because i don't want people to get the wrong idea about me; i dont look at the Philippines as a place i can be a jerk, find a woman to marry and let her do all the work.. work in the house etc. for me a relationship, especially marriage is a 50/50 split and i want to help my future wife in every way I can. I'm NOT here to take advantage of anyone, i'm sincere and I'm honestly looking for the real thing.

I've tried some dating sites before and i've been burned by a relationship with a girl i really did believe loved me. I don't want naked photos and stuff like that, I'm not interested in just sex/phone sex/whatever they call it now

I guess i should explain what i'm looking for right? I'm looking for a girl i can be comfortable with, not just a girlfriend/wife, my best friend also. I really want to find my soulmate and i truly believe in that. I want to laugh and joke with you and when times are hard? we will cry together and work through it. I will never leave you alone and i will never hurt you, i've felt too much pain in the past to ever put you through that. I want to be 110% comfortable with you and you with me, no secrets, no hiding anything. I don't care about finger nails and makeup, i love you for your personality and I LOVE natural beauty. I want to look into your eyes and tell you how much I love you.

I was raised to respect women and respect family. my parents are still together and work through their issues so that inspires me.

I'm looking to move to the Philippines in 2-3 years and i should have enough money to stay a while. if you want, we can go back to England, we can go anywhere actually but please show me your culture first, i want to live with you, I want to meet your family and prove myself.

people here call me soft and probably laugh at me because i'm different but i believe in showing emotion even if many men say its not 'manly' or 'macho' but i don't follow the trend.

I'm currently trying to learn tagalog, i know many of the main words but i still get confused so if you can help me thats amazing

umm yeah I was supposed to make this a short intro wasn't i? oops.

so thank you if you managed to read all of that, i appreciate it greatly :) I just want you to know, future asawa, I'm serious and I'm here to find you.. if you have any question just let me know, thank you!

Additional Information

Prefers to Meet Age:
22 to 27 (Strict age limits: no)
Marital Status:
Caucasian (white)
Body Type:
5' 10" (178 cm)
Have children:
Want children:
Preferred Bible Version:
King James
Spiritual but not religious / Other
Willing to Relocate:
Member Since: March 9, 2019
Last logged in: Mar 18, 2019

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