Location: Lapu-Lapu City, Cebu, Philippines
I am much prefer to purely single. It's ok if widow. Very important is not divorced or separated. I'm not judging or discriminating but i believe whats in the bible. Paul taught that if an unbelieving spouse leaves a believer, the believer is not bound to the marriage relationship, but is free to remarry" (1 Corinthians 7:15). And some people recognize such a thing as a "constructive desertion, " which would be when a husband so brutalizes his wife that it is impossible to live with him any longer; or when a wife has so harassed, or brutalized her husband that it becomes impossible for him to stay with her. When that happens, whether or not the person actually moves out, the situation is the equivalent of desertion, and divorce and remarriage are permissible.
Except for these reasons, there is no justification given in the Bible for divorce. No grounds exist for divorce on the basis of incompatibility, lack of love, or differing career goals. Frankly, it seems impossible that two born-again Christians who are dedicated to serving Jesus Christ can find any grounds for divorce.
To provide guidance in the way of forgiveness to divorced and remarried couples who have received Jesus Christ after divorce. In other words, your past life is covered by the blood of Christ. Enjoy your present marriage and live in it to the glory of God without recrimination. However, for Christians who have divorced (after being born again) for reasons other than adultery or desertion, I believe they should either be reconciled to their Christian mates or remain unmarried. For me i'll stick still for "no to divorce man". Thank you for your kind understanding.
I am just trying this site and allowing God to be the center of this all. And in His will, He will put everything in place. I believe that God is always in a perfect timing, in a perfect place and with a perfect person. May God bless us all!