I believe that for relationship to work, efforts from both side is necessary. Compromise, being very honest and talking about issues is important when uncertainty and doubts start rearing up its head. When i give you my loyalty, you have me entirely and giving up is not something i can easily do. It is more of a break my heart rather than break yours. I'm selfless and often described as someone nice. Something i consider a flaw. Being nice seems to give others the right to take advantage. I guess almost naive. Maybe another flaw would be being too trusting and trying to look and find the good in every person despite the rough edges. I am soft and empathic.
I believe in fairytales and happy endings. Not necessarily for myself but at least for my loved ones. I've been hurt a couple of times before, and it discourages me about the kind of happy ending im wishing for in my life. But i know happy endings is something you work for coupled with God's grace and mercy.