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67 Years Old, Male

About Phil

USER ID: 1013325

Location: Bloomfield, Michigan, United States

August 9, 2018

At the end of this, my very long profile, I am leaving a gift.
A present that may bring comfort to those of you who are
brokenhearted, lonely, or have given up on love.

Remember, Grace is just one step away...don’t give up.


I know your time is valuable and because of that, thank you for looking and hopefully reading all of my very long profile.

“Hihintayin kita” whoever you may be!

A little about me...

During the months have been on this site, there is one word that I have read over and over. It is the one word most often used in many Filipina’s profiles. It is a word that warms my heart.

What is it? The life value you refer to as—SIMPLE.

My life has been anything but SIMPLE. As a matter of fact, my life has been rather complicated and complex. I don’t regret the hectic way my life has been, but the truth is—I have always wanted a SIMPLE life. It’s nice to have businesses, a large house, cars, and things like that, but they all come with a high price.

What’s the price I’ve paid for my complicated life?

Working too many hours...having too many responsibilities...not taking enough holidays… missing my children’s first footsteps...buying roses, but rarely getting a chance to enjoy their sweet smell...missing God’s eye (the sun) as it opens to light the morning or watching as He closes His eye (sunset) to bring about the night...too consumed with work to even take a walk along the beach.

However, despite being too busy, I have taken the time to work on my body, mind and soul.

Having played sports most of my life, I exercise regularly to keep my body as youthful as possible for an old man, lol. People over the age of 40 are surprised should they discover my age…the ones under forty years of age (at least here in the U.S.) think that anyone over forty is a dinosaur, lol.

Why haven’t I posted a photo, if I supposedly take care of my body? Well, I’m not deformed, and I don’t look like a tarsier. However, I want YOU, if you are God’s chosen ONE for me...I want you to see the “inner man” that lives in this body (2 Corinthians 4:16). I will post a photograph when I upgrade sometime around September, 2018.

Being a very curious person, I read a lot of books, take classes to better understand people and life, but mostly to keep my mind active and alert. Now, I still forget where I’ve put my keys every so often, but who doesn’t? I mainly read books about how the human mind works, books about women and their feelings, medical articles, and the occasional superhero comic book here and there, lol.

I keep myself together spiritually by meditating, listening to sacred lectures, sitting quietly and listening for God’s words of wisdom, reading books on spirituality, reading Songs of Songs (Solomon) from the Old Testament, selected Books from the New Testament, and sometimes I just sing songs that tickle my heartstrings.

More about me. Hang in there, it won’t be long before I reveal the YOU that I think God has fashioned just for me…

Photography (worked my way through undergraduate and professional school as a fashion studio photographer), sculpturing, drawing, painting, collecting religious crosses from different countries, flying drones, English & German Cultures, writing, off-key singing (lol), container flower gardens, and more. When you’ve been around as long as I have, (thank you God), you tend to develop lots of hobbies.

I believe that every person has skills, talents, and abilities that God has given them. I believe each person can make this world a better world for us, and future generations with their God given skills. My self-imposed ministry has been to help individuals recognize and develop whatever talents they may have, and then them use those skills to make things better for themselves, their community, and the world.


I believe FRIENDSHIP MUST be the starting point in any intimate and long-lasting relationship. Just as you would not build a house upon shifting sand (Matthew 7:26), neither should WE start a relationship built on physical appearance, education, status, or money...all of those are secondary, and only serve to cloud one’s judgement in the long run.

I believe a healthy intimate relationship needs the strong foundation I talked about above, BUT that is just the beginning. In developing a long-lasting relationship and to build a sturdy structure (a house of love) to rest upon the strong foundation, a couple must be able to communicate with one another.

We must be able to communicate verbally, physically, and spiritually. If we don’t know our partner’s wants, needs, or desires in life, how can we ever develop a meaningful and long-lasting relationship? Being with someone doesn’t happen without a little work.

We must talk openly and honestly, no matter what hidden pain, or shame the conversation may reveal (Luke 8:17). It will be okay, because whatever is revealed, I will make it right--because that is what a God-fearing man does—huwag kang mag-alala. Akong bahala.

However, words are only a small portion of communication.

Can mere words truly describe the feeling you get holding your loved-one’s hand, as you walk along the beach?

Are there enough words to express the warm, moist, and soft feeling of your soulmate’s lips touching yours, or the secret language our tongues exchange during a long, sweet, and sensual kiss?

Would you dare try to express in words from any language, the uncontrollable sensations, the raging fire, and the volcanic explosions that happen within your body while making passionate love to your soulmate--all night long? (Song of Songs 7:1-13, King Solomon’s Marriage Manual on Intimacy).

However, nothing compares to the communication that occurs between you, your soulmate, and God!

We may or may not go to church our bible together...or...minister to others together, but when we present ourselves as “Isa” to our God Almighty, through our prayers, gratitude, or in song, we activate the steeple that adorns the top of our love house.

Our house of love is built on the solid ground of friendship. Our sturdy house is constructed out of clear verbal and physical communications of love. Finally, our house’s steeple, fabricated out of our spiritually communication, becomes our direct line to God.

The steeple, the four walls and the solid stone foundation, are all built out of the unconditional LOVE we will have cultivated for one another and, for God.

What I hope to find...

A lifetime partner that loves her family, her friends, and me…in return...she will appreciate the fact that I will also develop a love for her, her family, and her friends. In the end, they will become our family, our friends, and our loved ones.

A lifetime partner who loves to have fun...enjoys movies...and especially loves to hold hands while taking long walks along the beach.

A lifetime partner who enjoys BBQs and family fun...likes to sing, and dance with me and my two left feet, lol.

A lifetime partner that truly appreciates and loves being pampered...and loves to pamper me too, with neck rubs, whispering sweet words in my ear...and most importantly, she will look into my eyes and say those three little words that all soulmates want to know those words, do you not?

A lifetime partner who is kind...who will let me cook sometimes (I’m pretty good at it, lol).

A lifetime partner who is spiritual…who loves our Father in Heaven.

A lifetime partner who understands that if we must argue, out of respect of our family, children, and friends, we will only argue in private. The last thing I would want to do is humiliate you in front of others, and I know you would not want to humiliate me either.

A lifetime partner who will agree that If we must argue, that we will talk and work through the problem—then kiss and make up when you feel like being affectionate again...which won’t be too long, because your body will ache to receive the special touch that only I can give you...the warm and gentle touch that always melts your sweet soul into a puddle of pure ecstasy.

A lifetime partner who appreciates the fact that I will never go to sleep with anger towards her in my heart...and pray that she won’t go to sleep with anger in her heart towards me either. But, I will understand if you can’t let go of the anger—just yet. I will respect your need to be a little distant from me until you calm down.

A lifetime partner whom I will be very proud to stay with forever, whether she is; skinny or chubby, short or tall, beautiful or plain, short hair or long hair, advance degree or no degree, children or no children...because on the inside she is my “all and everything, ” my soulmate.

A lifetime partner who will not be jealous if I ‘accidentally’ look in the direction of a pretty girl for more than 1/10th of a second (I have no desire to experience “tampo” lol). As my lifetime partner, you should know that I only have eyes for you. But if I should look longer than a fraction of a second, I will do all the “lambing” (massages, foot rubs, chocolates, pastries, jewelry, flowers, trips to the mall) to win back your loving affections--eventually.

A lifetime partner who is an incurable romantic. Kisses and hugs me goodbye. Greets me with a hug and kiss. Tells me about her day. Wants to know about my day. Tells me her dreams, so I can work on making them come true. She already knows my dream—because she IS my dream!

A lifetime partner who is not possessive. She knows that I have pledged myself to her and her alone—"lkaw ang lahat sa akin”—she knows that I am hers and hers alone. She will not be fearful that someone will take me away from her, or that I would ever leave her!

A lifetime partner who knows that God is always watching...well, I hope He turns His head and doesn’t look when unbridle passion overtakes us, and we make love like there is no tomorrow.

I want my lifetime partner, when we are being intimate, to make me feel as if I am making love to every woman in the world at the same time, because she really is my ALL and EVERYTHING. ALERT: It is your love, not necessarily your skill at making love that will make me feel this way…so relax, you don’t have to memorize the Kama Sutra, lol.

A lifetime partner that is faithful…who knows that I am the only one she needs, wants, or desires...she knows that being unfaithful will be a burden too great to carry, just as it would be if I were unfaithful to her. Being faithful will be easy for us, because we will be each other’s “all and everything” and we will make every effort to keep each other happy.

Well, if you have read this far, you were either bored, waiting in a long line, wanted to pass the time of day, or curious to find out if we can become— “Isa”—One.

Pagpalain ka ng Diyos


P.S. - Please overlook my awkward usage of your language, I'm just trying to break the ice.
P.S.S. – Scammers, gold diggers, racists, and females with less than desirable motives are easily spotted, and will be reported and blocked.



August 9, 2018

This is the gift I mentioned at the beginning of my profile. If you have been hurt by someone you love/loved, or if you ever wonder if love will ever find you, perhaps the words of this song will give you hope. If you would like to listen to the song, I have put a YouTube link for it at the end.

Remember, Grace is just one step away...

-by Rag'n'Bone Man

Said I loved you without hesitation
So easy for you to break my foolish heart
Now I wonder if you ever speak my name
Will I always be defined by my mistakes?

In the eyes of a Saint I'm a stranger
We're all trying to find a way
At the death of every darkness there's a morning
Though we all try
We all try
We're all one step from grace

I made myself believe
There was no fight left in me
But redemption doesn't fall down at your feet
In the half light
We raised a hand to my defeat
And I watched the world fall
And I rebuilt it piece by piece

In the eyes of a saint I'm a stranger
We're all trying to find a way…
…We're all one step from grace

I wonder why we give up on love
When it's always within reach
You and I, we suffered this enough
We all try
We all try
We're all one step from grace

In the eyes of a saint I'm a stranger
We're all trying to find a way
At the death of every darkness there's a morning
Though we all try
We all try
We're all one step from grace

Remember, the love you seek is also seeking you. Good luck and God speed the love that is meant for you.

Additional Information

Prefers to Meet Age:
29 to 67 (Strict age limits: no)
Marital Status:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Body Type:
221 lbs (100.2 Kg)
6' 1" (185 cm)
Have children:
Yes - but not at home
Want children:
Not sure
Preferred Bible Version:
New International
Willing to Relocate:
Member Since: March 25, 2018
Last logged in: Aug 16, 2018

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