Those are the frequent questions that quite bother a few if not most of the people who knows me. But personally, it doesn’t bother me at all now (maybe, it does before). As I grow older each year and still single, I just smile and joke around to these frequent comments and questions regarding my love life status as I may say. Though, at the back of my mind, I have my answers and valid reasons to this question. Why am I still single?
In today’s society where in, being at your twenties and still single tend to become substantial to some. Others are feeling the pressure from their family and friends and some may become either hopeless or desperate. On my part, I am learning to enjoy the process. The journey of waiting. The importance of self-love, self-respect, and self-worth. The beauty of being alone and happy by myself. And most especially, the faith and the relationship with the Almighty One.
Yes, I do have my set of standards and it is totally okay and important to have those. As long as it is reasonable and do discern that it is aligned with the will of God. I am not looking for a “perfect guy” though, because I know that there is none. Rather, I am patiently waiting for “God’s Man”.
I am still single because I believe that God is still working and preparing His Man for me. In the same way that He is still preparing me to be the best version of myself, and that I will not fall short to the standards that I have.
I'm still for my "God's Man" Hopefully I can find it in here 💓