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Posted on January 09,2016

What do men think when ladies ask for a video chat on the first meeting? I always want to have a video chat on the first meeting. I want to talk to a man face to face before I continue to communicate and get to know him. First, of course I want to know how he look likes and see how the pictures match. Second, I want to see how he talks and how he converse. This is very important to me. I think for me this better, so not to waste his or my time. What is your opinion on this? 

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Jimi I agree completely!

Some men might feel like they don't know you well enough but for me, as long as I had a picture and a profile and at least one small message between us, I welcomed web cams right away.  

I frequently had requests for webcams and the six or so women I web cammed with before focusing on my now wife, were pleasant to talk to and quickly came me a certain impression.

Ultimately it depends on the man.  Skipping with a younger woman could be intimidating too, but my experience was the women were pleasant and easy to talk too, didn't seem nervous at all.

 

 

Jimi said:

What do men think when ladies ask for a video chat on the first meeting? I always want to have a video chat on the first meeting. I want to talk to a man face to face before I continue to communicate and get to know him. First, of course I want to know how he look likes and see how the pictures match. Second, I want to see how he talks and how he converse. This is very important to me. I think for me this better, so not to waste his or my time. What is your opinion on this? 


 

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Jimi I agree completely!

Some men might feel like they don't know you well enough but for me, as long as I had a picture and a profile and at least one small message between us, I welcomed web cams right away.  

I frequently had requests for webcams and the six or so women I web cammed with before focusing on my now wife, were pleasant to talk to and quickly came me a certain impression.

Ultimately it depends on the man.  Skipping with a younger woman could be intimidating too, but my experience was the women were pleasant and easy to talk too, didn't seem nervous at all.

 

 

Jimi said:

What do men think when ladies ask for a video chat on the first meeting? I always want to have a video chat on the first meeting. I want to talk to a man face to face before I continue to communicate and get to know him. First, of course I want to know how he look likes and see how the pictures match. Second, I want to see how he talks and how he converse. This is very important to me. I think for me this better, so not to waste his or my time. What is your opinion on this? 


 

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Bob, thank you for that. You have a beautiful wife and I'm happy you found your better half. I have requested webchats from 2 men who sent me winks and messages but the guy named Marcus told me he wants me nude, while the other one showed up with no shirt. I asked a friend from here who I dated before, but we found out we could be good friends instead, and he said many women here send him nude pictures and request for video chat. So now I was thinking if requesting for a video chat for the first time is not a good idea because a man might think I'm not decent and would not talk to me. 

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Jimi, if Marcus is from here please call someone at CF and ask that they get rid of him.

Now I see what you mean, but I see wanting to move to a web cam quickly as just a better way to communicate.  

I pray this will be your year!

 

 

Jimi said:

Bob, thank you for that. You have a beautiful wife and I'm happy you found your better half. I have requested webchats from 2 men who sent me winks and messages but the guy named Marcus told me he wants me nude, while the other one showed up with no shirt. I asked a friend from here who I dated before, but we found out we could be good friends instead, and he said many women here send him nude pictures and request for video chat. So now I was thinking if requesting for a video chat for the first time is not a good idea because a man might think I'm not decent and would not talk to me. 


 

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Thank you Bob. Actually, I saw that he posted something about breast transplant and I used the inappropriate tab to report what he did about the incident.

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Jimi said:

Bob, thank you for that. You have a beautiful wife and I'm happy you found your better half. I have requested webchats from 2 men who sent me winks and messages but the guy named Marcus told me he wants me nude, while the other one showed up with no shirt. I asked a friend from here who I dated before, but we found out we could be good friends instead, and he said many women here send him nude pictures and request for video chat. So now I was thinking if requesting for a video chat for the first time is not a good idea because a man might think I'm not decent and would not talk to me. 


awwwww Miss Jimi, one thing I am scared of being invited to skype / webchat immediately without few conversations (text chatting) first here on CF. Not sure what to expect - LOL. 

I know you address this to men, just want to encourage you. I guess, it's ok to request (you just landed on the wrong people - hehe).

 

Just be prepared always in case you experience the unexpected - LOL. Better of, always pray and ask the Lord's guidance. HE will keep you from harm if we acknowldege Him in all our ways. Amen

Blessings. 

 

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Thank you Rey, yeah you're right. Maybe I just landed on the wrong people.  Thank you for the advice. Yes, we should pray always so God would lead us to the right person. 

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I think that video chat is good because you get to see and hear the other person.  You are better able to judge that person.

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And if the web cam is in her home you can maybe wave or speak to her family.

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And if the web cam is in her home you can maybe wave or speak to her family.

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I don't mind doing a video chat.  The only problem that I have is when the woman asks to chat on Skype.  I am able to have video chat right here on CF; so there is no need to leave the site to chat.

Also, they almost always seem to have technical difficulities with their web cam.

Personally, I do not like it.  First, it freezes up the iPhone app and I have to reboot if I am in the messenger.  Second, I am typically in bed and I don't want to talk to some person I have never even met while I am in my underwear lol.  So, I turn them all down everytime.  If somebody is in to me, they will have to take the time to get to know me first.  Then, I will consider it.  That is my stance as a guy.  Good luck!

Personally, I do not like it.  First, it freezes up the iPhone app and I have to reboot if I am in the messenger.  Second, I am typically in bed and I don't want to talk to some person I have never even met while I am in my underwear lol.  So, I turn them all down everytime.  If somebody is in to me, they will have to take the time to get to know me first.  Then, I will consider it.  That is my stance as a guy.  Good luck!

Hi sir matthew,

have a good day,hmm i guess talking to vedio chat is one of the way to know someone else,so how do that someone able to know about you  if you dont like to talk on vedio?hehe anyway im not interested in vedio chat with you, just asking.

God bless

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