First of all thank you for noticing me on this site. I have been here a long time, but if you have experienced heartbreak then you know as well as I that getting it right is absolutely essential. Looks are nice yes, but they fade away over time. Fashion and trends do too, but the mind, the soul and the character never fades. That is something to remember and to think about. Just to be clear here, two really big events have taken place for me recently. One good one sad. The sad one is my lifelong friend whom I have know since my eyes first opened left this world on August 10th. He was my earthly rock. I will miss him immensely. A large piece of my spirit soars with him, so I am mourning this loss for a period of time. The good news is a certain woman has caught my eye. I have been in regular contact with her getting to know her and learning about her. I like everything I see. Please be happy for me. Five years of being patient and waiting for what I know is right takes time. What was it that won me over to her? Fashion? Looks? Job? Language? Nope none of that. It was her devotion to being an honorable and God fearing woman. By following the biblical scriptures and seeking to do Gods will, that’s what won me. Ladies, the elusive man is not elusive at all. He just wants you to be as dedicated to obedience to God as he is. It’s all about the level of seriousness. Your looks will attract admirers for sure, but what kind of admirers are you attracting with all that garish makeup and cleavage. Now I know from personal experience when you ladies see something you like and maybe you want, then learn that object of your desire is attracted to another woman it’s game on! Don’t waste your time please. I am not some lonely heart or inexperienced man. It’s foolish thinking you can trick me into second guessing myself. And even if you did succeed in luring me into your spell would you want a man that is easily tricked? Another woman better than you would come along, then you yourself would be the looser by the very trick you used on the prior. It’s no good so don’t go there. Just remember, take your time. The goal is to be happy, not desperate. Let God work His plans and all will be well. Stay positive. The devil is a trickster, that lier causes more troubles when we allow his deceptions to enter into our minds. Do not listen to him! Gods voice is soft like the morning breeze while the devil has to be loud to distract us. Ladies, I thank you for your time. Salamat!