I am a born again Christian. I do not smoke or drink. I am a Mechanical Engineer and I like to make things. I am seeking a woman to be my wife. She should be a christian, she should not drink or smoke. She should want to move to the USA in my home town to have children.rnrn I am not perfect and I do not expect her to be perfect either. I do live a christian life and expect her to live christian also.rnrnI have a fantasy. Not a fantasy that is vulgar or evil but rather is one of a husband and wife who love each other. rnrnShe has prepared a meal for us to eat. She has chosen to prepare food that she knows I really enjoy and has done this out of love for me. I take her hands in mine and gently kiss her fingertips and give thanks to our Lord and Saviour for bringing her into my life. There is scripture that says that a wife is to be submissive to her husband. In preparing the food for me...she has fulfilled this scripture. In the next few verses it says that a husband should love his wife, and as I bless her for work in preparing the food...I am showing my love for her.rnrnWhy is this such an elusive thing for the world to understand? Why can't the world see that living a Christian life is not sad but rather a wonderful joyous life. rnrnThere is more to marriage than just a meal and showing love for each other it is many other things...but love between a man and a woman as husband and wife...is sanctioned by God and is to be sought by all.rnrnDo not think me weak. I ask you who is stronger: The man who goes to work each day to provide for his family he works long hours in the hot sun. His muscles are tired at the end of the day but still has time to spend with his wife and children. His body will have pain from the hard work which he has done. But he will still help his wife at home and he will teach his children so that they can have a better life than he has. He is not too proud to bow his head before God and ask for his blessings not for himself but for his wife and children; asking nothing for himself except only for his loved ones. There is another man who is the drunkard who abandons his wife and children. He will go to a bar to get drunk and fights to try to prove that he is a strong man. He will leave his young children and their mother to find another woman to have more children. He will then leave her for still another woman to create more chlldren. All of his children are without a father, all of their mothers are poor. But he will stand and tell the world how powerful he is as he is bound by none. rnrnNow I ask you....which is the strong man? If you are a woman who seeks the drunk then do not waste my time or yours by responding to my profile. I am not perfect; but I do not seek a "bar-girl". I understand a young woman making a mistake and being the victim of the drunk; haveing a child and no father for the child; seeking a man to help her. I understand her problem...if she will be true to me; I can accept the child and be a father to her child; but she must NEVER go back to the drunk! She must NEVER even speak to him again! If I am to be a father to her child and her husband; I must be the ONLY father and ONLY husband.rnrnThis is my way of trying to show what I seek on this site.