Gary

I am a mix of Native American, German, Dutch, Irish, & Black. It is my wish to find a mature lady that is not into verbal combat or constant disrespectful words. I need a life and business partner, not a lady with a constant gripe and argue/adversarial relationship mindset. My goal is to find a woman where we are not each other's sole and unique possession. A marriage or union cannot be the possession of any other human-being(s), including a spouse. I strongly believe a person cannot possess their wife/husband because she/he is not a piece of property. It has been my experience that over-jealous, over possessive women/men need to understand this clearly. I feel "Super jealously" doesn't equal "Super love" in a healthy relationship. The point of a good relationship is about creating a trusting loving environment that BOTH work to maintain and can feel safe and nurtured within their special circle. Therefore, I look for a union where "a marriage or union of a couple" means love with respect, not ownership or raging jealously. If you are a "jealous type" and feel you want a man that you can control or abuse to "show love", I am not the man to communicate with.


We all have been deceived by those "Christians" that claim love and being true but find drinking or drugs as a good excuse to cheat/do what they want when they want... Scammers and their friends are also everywhere, so my intent is to avoid all such persons.


 I have the following main goals, in random order: 


1. Find the right area of land in Tagaytay area ( I like Alfonso too ). 


2. Continue with my semi-retirement here in the Philippines.  


3. Make very, very sure that the lady I fall in love with will NEVER cheat on me; not because of her words of love for me, but because of her actual love of God and her love and respect for our future.  


4. A woman that accepts my focus on healthy living and supports a lifestyle of avoiding Pork an other bad meats, smoke, alcohol and drugs.  


5.  My plans to return to my PhD studies for completion at AIIAS/AUP.  


6. To find a lady that is not a drama queen and still will be a wife, a lover, and my close friend.  


7. To find a true woman where her love is not a show for others but a way of life with me forever.  


8. A lady that is not filled with a fear of Bible reading and historic events.  I am SDA (Seventh-Day Adventist).


9.  A lady that does not need or wish to drink or smoke, even to "be sociable".   


If you feel that I am to direct, demanding or any other not so good character, please smile and forget about me.  If, however I have made any impressions, please do understand that I am a very focused, logical and philosophical person.  


I am not an upgraded member and still not sure if I will stay here. Also, I do not consider profiles without recent pics...  

UPDATE!! I have settled in Tagaytay, Cavite, Philippines since late July 2013… life is very different (of course) and even as I avoid all possible gamers, there are still many people that are not very serious.

Thank you for taking time to read my "short" profile and may God bless all of us.