Jill

I am an Ambivert/ but still an INFJ the Advocate ( in the Briggs, and Myers 16 Personality types ) in the larger end of the spectrum. Introverts value and replenish their energy thru solitude for a healthy wellbeing. I'm an Empath, a Critical Thinker, highly intuitive, compassionate, Fiercely Loyal, Faithful, Kind but not gullible enough to tolerate abuse or cheating in any form or function just like anyone else.

I seek genuine connection so don't message me or waste our time if you're only interested in mind games and is just obsessed on how a person looks overlooking total connection...

On GHOSTING people here on soc med and dating apps.- Ghosting is a common relationship management strategy. It is rude, often unnecessary, and often shows a lack of maturity, courage, and compassion. If you stop talking to someone even after seeing their face on camera or in person, or think there's no connection its better to say it... I do agree real connection should be in its entirety - physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual it's still not an excuse to simply stop talking to someone just because you don't like how they look it's better to speak truthfully and let everything take its course than just simply disappear without a trace. Because 'everyone is doing it' doesn't mean it's acceptable, It's not a waste of time if you don't end up together at least you gain a friend and who knows if this and is your link to find your future husband or wife.

A lot of men and women have gone past through evident red flags and were miserably trapped in toxic Relationships because they were so overly concerned looking for "Eye Candy" instead of Soul/Spirit Candy....

I'm delighted to share a glimpse of who I am—a woman who cherishes her spiritual values and seeks a meaningful connection. If you're an honest, mature, and sensible man with character, who values substance over surface, then I believe we could have something "special".

I have a laidback demeanor, knowing when to slow down and savor life's moments. My integrity is of utmost importance to me— as we ought to reflect God's character and live for His glory though it may be difficult but we depend on His grace, guidance, wisdom and strength.

My spiritual journey is a vital part of my life. I find solace in reading the Bible, seeking His Word, and embracing His guidance in every step I take. It brings me great joy to share the lessons I've learned and to connect with fellow believers, as we join God wherever He is working. Encouraging others to embrace their God-given potential is a passion of mine.It would be amazing to inspire others to embrace their true selves and become the best version of who God created them to be.

During my free time, you'll find me swimming, bowling, writing poems, cooking or enjoying a good movie. I also have a knack in doing basic troubleshooting, performing basic maintenance on my cellphone and laptop, installing my fan, a/c, etc I know it's a man's job but since I am alone I have learned to be independent but would love to share my life with someone who can do better installation and manly stuff more than I do 😂

I have a deep love for nature, ie the beach and find solace in trekking and island hopping, marveling at the breathtaking creations of our incredible God. I love adventure but not the dare devil type. We still have to be sane, and act in wisdom at all times.... I love animals and I have pet cats and dogs since Sophomore days but I only have a 6 yr old cat whom i adore and love so much.

I consider myself more spiritual than religious. For me, the Christian life is not about following a rigid set of rules but engaging in a loving relationship with a gracious Father who sacrificed Himself for us. Driven by His love, and seeking to yield to His Spirit by His Grace I am compelled by His love to obey and serve Him wholeheartedly.

As a woman of principles, I seek His purpose and will for my life and view the Christian journey as a thrilling and adventure-filled life. In my prayers, I seek a God-fearing man who is honest, Spirit-filled, kind, responsible, romantic, intelligent, and a mature Christian. Someone who loves the Lord, walks by faith, and is continuously growing in knowledge, wisdom, and grace.

In a relationship, I have no qualms about being second in a man's life and heart as long as God comes first in His life. Jesus is our first love and the husband was exhorted by Apostle Paul to love His Wife as Christ loves the Church and laid down His life for her. A woman loved by her husband as Christ loves her will not have any trouble submitting to a husband led by the Spirit of God...

A man who is led by God knows how to lead his woman and a man of his Word knows that Marriage is a Covenant unto God. A man and woman had to be fully submitted to God and as they become closer to God they get closer to one another.

Christ should be the center of any relationship esp Marriage as God is the author of Marriage.

I believe that marriage is a partnership. It's a total connection of mind, spirit, and body. Mutual Attraction is important but Genuine Connection is essential not just Chemistry and compatibility. The acid test to whether a relationship will is when you take away the attraction and the physical aspect and nothing else remains...

Being in a relationship is hard work it requires 100/100 in both parties --- of your time, effort, energy and devotion not just 50/50.

The only thing that can bring you closer to God is when you've already had an intimate Relationship with the Creator of the Universe who knows you more than anyone else can.

The closer we grow to God, the closer we become to one another. I have been praying for someone who will love me for who I am because I am far from perfect, and I rely solely on His Grace, mercy and love by His finished work on the Cross of Calvary.

Ultimately, my desire is to be a woman, wife, and mother after God's own heart. I believe this can only be achieved by His grace, but as I delight myself in Him, He promises to grant the desires of my heart (Psalms 37:4).

I firmly believe in reserving physical intimacy for marriage. I am searching for a partner who shares the same values and understands the sanctity of this bond.
I don't believe in premarital sex as it is sacredly God's gift only for married couples .

In the workplace, I have always been part of the Sales and Marketing team in the past, but I spent a decade as a customer interaction associate, providing excellent service in a Filipino-based call center.
Additionally, I have served as a Care Group leader in the youth/singles ministry, dedicating myself to the Lord's work since I have accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior since I was 23.

However, due to the pandemic, I transitioned into a home-based career as an online freelancer. This change has granted me the flexibility to spend quality time with my loved ones/family and enjoy doing the things that I am most passionate about."

Also, kindly note that I prefer not to engage with people who do not have profile pictures. This platform is for real people, and transparency is important. Remember, as a Christian, your identity lies in who you are in Christ, and you are uniquely favored and dearly loved solely because of what Christ has done on the cross.

Technology can be a double-edged sword. It can either be used to glorify God or it can consume us. As true believers, we must be aware of the enemy's schemes. Our best defense is being equipped with God's armor and maintaining a humble heart before Him.
To all the gentlemen here, don't just look for a princess or a damsel in distress but look for a Queen who will not just treat you like a King but also willing to fight by your Side...

(Proverbs 31:30 Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.)

I will not tolerate any profanity, obscenity or nudity whatsoever, you will be reported, deleted and blocked immediately...

I know i have written a long one and am really amazed you've gone this far...

Thank you for reading my profile and I pray that you will find the Woman of your dreams God loves you deeply more than you ever know. God bless you richly...Shalom....