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Shielyn

31 Years Old, Female

USER ID: 1646335

Location: Zamboanga, Philippines, Philippines

About Shielyn

USER ID: 1646335

Location: Zamboanga, Philippines, Philippines

In order for the new one to arrive, the old must first disappear.
For a new leaves to be able to grow, old leaves must fall.
A lot of times we want instant gratification.
In order to find something that will last, we need to learn how to wait and not rush anything.
It's about finding freedom in forgiveness.
All of these things aren't really successful if you do it on your own.
That's why you have to leave it to God, and surrender it to God because only He can make the broken things beautiful again.
Isn't it such a great thing that what used to bring you pain?
When you share it to other people, it now brings them freedom.
What used to hurt you, and what used to take your hope is now bringing hope to people.
Some of us didn't end up together.
Then we think of, that is the definition of a failed relationship.
But we often forget that people enter into dating to see whether or not, and this is the person they wanna spend the rest of their lives with.
Just because two people didn't end up together with doesn't mean it was a failed relationship.
We can also choose to see it in a way that "Wow" I got the privilege of knowing and loving and learning from this person even if it was just for short time.
We can choose Gratitude over Bitterness.
We can choose Joy over Pain.
We can choose Freedom over Guilt.
And we can choose LOVE.
And we can choose Forgiveness.
And just because you're not gonna continue that in the seasons to come doesn't mean it was a failed one.
From here on, I will choose to remember the good times because you are still worth that.
From just typical sad seems, to just making them all happy seems.
Because at the end of the day, the what actually hurt us in our memories are the good times, and the could've been, but the what if's, the happy memories that we were counting on.
To sustain a relationship, a lot of us feel that love is staying together and sometimes love is setting people FREE.
I for one, I am very blessed to have a family who loves me, who takes care of me but I've also been in a place wherein I didn't have that privilege.
And I know that a lot of people are in waiting.
And I wanted to make sure that those people know that they are understood, that they are not alone.
The past may hurt us but I want you to know that you are not alone.

Send me a message to know me well 😍

Additional Information

Prefers to Meet Age:
35 to 55 (Strict age limits: no)
Marital Status:
Single
Education:
Bachelors degree
Ethnicity:
Filipina / Filipino
Body Type:
Average
Weight:
122 lbs (55.3 Kg)
Height:
5' 2" (157 cm)
Have children:
No
Want children:
Yes
Preferred Bible Version:
King James
Religion:
Christian / Catholic
Willing to Relocate:
No
Member Since: October 2, 2020
Last logged in: Sep 27, 2022

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